Imagine yourself as a young gay man or as a young lesbian,and write a letter to your parent explaining your sexual preference.
Dear Mom, Ive been thinking this a hundred times on how to say it with you,that if you would hear me explaining,you will not get hurt...Because I'm afraid that you can't forgive me.Since I was a kid,your expecting me to be a man when I grow up that I will be the one you can lean on when you feel down but how could I be posibly be that man when all along,I want to be a woman,I'm sorry mom for being like this I've tried hard to keep it but I cant take it anymore,I am a man but my heart is woman,I'm begging for your forgiveness.
mahal kong mga magulang, Meron po sana akong gustong sabihin sa inyo. Matagal ko na po itong gustong sabihin.kaso hindi ko lng agad masabi- sabi dahil baka magalit po kayo.ito po ay tungkol sa aking personal na buhay,sa totoolang po,ako ay isang bakla,tinatago ko lang sa inyo dahil baka magalit kayo. Hindi ko rin sinabi sa personal, kaya dinaan konapo nalang sa isang liham.patawad po kung sa ganito aku, wala namang masama sa pagiging bakla..di po ba? Pero kahit ganito po ako,sana ay ituring nyo po ako bilang inyong anak. Sana po ay naiintindihan nyo ako
Have a pleasant day to both of you! Ma, Pa, did I ever tell you my sexual preference? Well anyway, I just want both of you to know that whatever I would tell you at this period of time, this is still me, your son. Ma, Pa, I wanna be a gay. I know it's not easy for you to hear these words but I hope that time will come for you to understand and accept me for who I am. I want to wear those fit clothes, wearing my red stilletoes, putting some make-up and wearing accessories. Oh! It's so damn funny! LOL. There were so many things I usually do when you're not around. I usually speaks such gay words because whenever I do it, I enjoy, and I myself is able to capture and interpret who really I am as a person and as your son. Probably my character will be changed, but not my personality. I love you both!
Mahal kung mga magulang, Ma,Pa. salamat sa lahat ng inyoung pag-aaruga sa amin at sa pagpapalaki nyo sa aming magkakapatid.kahit na minsan ay lumalabas ang aming mga ugali na hindi maganda patuloy parin kayo sa pag-intindi at pagpapaalala ng tama at mali. Dahil dyan naglakas loob akung ipaalam sa inyo ang matagal kunang nais ipaalam sa inyo, at sana ay maunawaan nyo ako. Ma,Pa.Bakla Po ako matagal kona Po sanang sasabihin sa inyo kaya lang natatakot Po ako pero talagang kailangang malaman na Po ninyo na ang anak ninyo ay in love sa kapwa lalaki. Ma,Pa.patawarin nyo Po ako pangako Po hindi ako magiging pabigat at sakit ng ulo ninyo. Ma,palagi kitang aayosan at pagagandahin para mawala ang iyong mga problema.at ikaw Pa,mamasahihin kita palage para ma relax ka. Ma,Pa. hanggang dito na muna ang sulat ko at sa isang buwan uuwe ako dyan. Lubos na gumagalang ang inyong anak Nagmamahal Lyssa Pearl.
First, I would like to say thank you for everything that you gave me; for the love, care and support. Ma and Pa, I didn't know how I'm supposed to tell you this.After this confessions, I didn't know too if you'll still accept me as your son.Every day I keep on doing things to make you proud and to see how you are that you have me in your life. And now I'm old enough and I think that this is a right time to let you know the truth. I was born with a ladies heart or should I say I am a gay. But you know,I was trying to become a real man. Yes I did, I did it physically. Act like a real, even though is against in my part and in my heart. Many years of my existence I was hiding the real me,and I too suffer. Everyday I ask my self "was I being cursed?" I know I am physically, mentally and emotionally fit, but why they are not consistent? Being like this, this is not easy, but you know Ma and Pa, if theres only medicine that could cure this undesirable state of my life, I would take it. But I know theres none. Perhaps if I die, and that is the only cure. Ma and Pa I am very sorry to disappoint you. I hope you'll understand.I love you as much as you loved me.
Mahal kong Inay, Una sa lahat, magandang araw sa inyo. Sana nasa mabuti kang kalagayan ngayon. Nay, May gusto sana akong aminin sa inyo, pero alam kong hindi pormal na sa sulat ko sasabihin ang tungkol sa tunay kong pagkatao. Nay, gusto kong malaman mo na masakit din sa loob ko na aaminin sa inyo na isa akong tomboy. Alam kong masakit para sa inyo bilang isang magulang na malaman ang tungkol sa akin. Nay, Hindi ko na kayang mag panggap pa na isa akong tunay na babae, ngunit sa kaloob-looban ng aking puso ay isa akong lalaki. Nay alam kong isang malaking panloloko ang paglihim ko ng katotohanan sa inyo at bilang isang magulang alam kong hindi ito madaling tanggapin. Nay, patawarin nyo po ako, dahil ganito na talaga ako, at gusto ko naring mamuhay ng walang halong pag papanggap. Naniniwala ako na darating ang isang araw na matatanggap nyo ako bilang isang ganap na lalaki. Mahal na mahal ko po kayo kaya labag din sa kalooban ko na saktan kayo. Patawad po sa inyo, at naway ang katotohanan ay syang mapapalaya sa atin. Lubos na gumagalang
How does Mr. Duran feel about becoming a member of the Mooney family? Well, maybe he won't be happy cause he is just marrying Polly for the sake of his reputation not because he love the girl. He is afraid of loosing his honor if he will just leave Polly behind and forget the issues. Sometimes the decision of individuals today about marriage issue isn't base of love but because of responsibility they shouldered for the one person.In Mr. Duran case he is well accepted base to the demonstration of the author in the story because Mrs. Mooney is confident that Polly well have a good life together with him.But I don't think Mr.Duran will be happy in marrying Polly cause as I mentioned above he is just marrying the girl just for his reputation not for the reason of love. For me I can fell that it would be difficult to be on Mr. Duran's place because it is very different that you entered the kingdom of marriage to be with your love one than marrying someone for honor. He is not happy to be one of of the Mooney Family. And there marriage won't be happy.
assignment Question: How Mr. Doran feel about becoming a member of the Mooney family? For me of being fear about the becoming member of Mooney family. Why fear? Because as a man it is normal for us to feel the fear, especially in this situation. It is hard for a man to feel comfortable to become a new member of the family especially those family you don’t know well. And as Mr. Doran part it is un prepared marriage, he did not expect that it would be happen. And even though he hesitates to make a decision regarding to his problem if he would marry Polly or he would run away, still he choose Polly than to his own happiness. Because he is afraid to lost his honor and reputation in their society. It would be ashamed to his family if he would run away. And as a man I admire Mr. Doran, because he face his responsibility , and being a man its for us to marry the person without love. There for we need to be careful in doing thing. We need to think it wisely, because repentance is always at last.
Question: How mr. Duran feel about becoming a member of mooney family? Ans. In that certain situation most probably the man would be happy because he will be engaged to the woman he love. They will not be separated in the eyes of God. On the other side of the coin, there is a guilt that the man feels because they are not yet supposed to be engaged. The girl is too young to enter that deep relationship. So the man will partially be happy and guilty.
una sa lahat, gusto kong malaman nyo na nagpapasalamat ako sa pagpapalaki sa akin ng maayos. ito ay tinatanaw ko bilang isang malaking utang na loob. habang binabasa niyo ang sulat na ito, malamang ay nasa malayong lugar na ako. hindi ko na kayang itago ang nararamdaman ko at parang sasabog na ang puso ko sa hirap. ako po ay isang SIRENA at hindi ko ito kinakahiya. sana po ay maunawaan niyo ang kalagayan ko at hindi niyo ako itrato na katulad ng ibang mga bakla. hindi po ako basta-basta..hard to get ako pero easy to use...huhuhuhu...sana po au matanggap niyo ang aking piniling buhay at sana ay ingatan niyo ang inyong mga sarili. lalayo ako upang magpa sex change at babalik na isa ng ganap na magandang babae.hindi masasayang ang pinakain niyo sa akin..paalam..mahal ko kayo..
Nais ko pong malaman nyo ang tunay kong damdamin. Dahil nung nagkaisip po ako nararamdaman ko po sa aking damdamin at isipan na merong kakaiba. Kaya naisip ko ilahad ang saloobin at sana po ay hindi kayo mabigla, sana po ay inyong maintindihan na ang damdamin ko ay may pagka-babae. Hinihiling ko po na sana maintindihan nyo at matanggap. Tay, alam ko po na masakit sa inyo na tanggapin ang katotohanan na ang kaisa-isa nyong anak na lalake ay ngayon po ay isa nang bading. Matagal na pong panahon na itinago ko ito at ngayon lang ako nagkalakas ng loob dahil hindi ko po kayang itago ng matagal at magsinungaling sa inyo ni ina. Nay, alam ko pong maiintindihan nyo at tulungan nyo po ako na ipaliwanag kay itay ang tunay kong nararamdaman. Umaasa po ako na matanggap nyo po ako ng buong-buo katulad ng pagmamahal nyo sa akin nung ako'y bata pa.
Una sa lahat magandang araw sayo. At sana nasa mabuti kang kalagayan ngayon.Pa , may gusto sana akong aminin sayo, pero hindi ko alam kong paano ko ito sisimulan dhil inunahan ako ng kaba at takot sa magiging resulta nito. Pero pa habang tumatagal mas lalo akong nahihirapan na ilihim sa inyo ang katotohanan.Dahil habang tumatagal ay patuloy ko kayong niloloko at ang aking sarili. Pa , alam kong pag nalaman nyo ito ay abot langit amg galit nyo sa akin, pero naniniwala ako na ito na ang tamang panahon para malaman nyo ang katotohanan. Pa, sa kabila ng aking pagka lalaki ay doon nag tatago ang tunay kong pagka tao na bakla ako. Pa, patawarin nyo po ako dahil ganito na talaga ako at ayw ko ng mamuhay pa ng may halong pag papa nggap. Pa, alam kong mahirap tanggapin ang katotohanan, pero ito ang totoo at ang katotohanan ay syang mag papalaya sa atin. Na niniwala ako na darating ang araw na matatanggap nyo ako bilang ako. Hanggang dito na lang.Lubos na gumagalang
Sumusulat po ako sa inyo dahil gusto kong magtapat ng aking tunay na pagkatao. Sana maintidihan po ninyo ako, wag po sana kayong magalit sa akin. At wag kayong magugulat sa aaminin kosa inyo. Hindi ko ginusto na maging ganito ako, na maging isang lesbian.. ngunit wala po akong magawa. Ganito na talaga ako. Ginawa ko na ang lahat ..pinilit ko na maging isang tunay na babae ngunit hindi ko talaga kaya. Hindi ko gustong ipahiya kayo sa ibang tao sa pagkakaroon niyo ng anak na lesbiana. Alam ko pong hindi niyo inaasahan na maging ganito ako. Ngunit nabigo ko kayo. Sana po matanggap niyo pa rin ako bilang anak ninyo. Patawad po sa lahat ng nagawa ko. Muli, partawad po at sana matanggap po ninyo ang tunay kong pagkatao. Hanggang ditto na lang po ako. Maraming salamat po sa lahat. Mahal na mahal ko po kayo.
Una sa lahat gusto ko po na malaman niyo na mahal na mahal ko kayo. Salamat po sa pagmamahal at pag-aaruga sa akin. Siguro po nagtataka kayo bakit sumulat ako sa inyo hindi ko po kasi kaya sabihin sa personal, sana ay maintindihan niyo po ako. Kung dati po ay Jun2x ako ngayon po ay Jean2x na. Oo inay at itay bakla ako noon pero ngayon babae na talaga. Sanay tanggapin niyo kung kung may nag-iisa na kayong dalaga sa pamilya. Sana rin po ay maintindihan ako ng mga kuya at aturing nila akong tunay na kapatid na babae.
Borrowed time I have something to tell you my dear parents.I hope you undertsand what i am to tell you now.I can't say it to you in personal but.,In the way in writting a letter ,I express my feeling and a little secre that i have made.This is the time to tell you that i am a gay,for how long,.I cannot blame myself that am i gay this is my choice for being of it.I'm happy for of this.Ill know you amaze for what i'm telling to you now and i hope you accept me,for what I'am you can't change your attention of me.As a son.Im ready for what you said to me or it is good or bad.All I can say it I'm happy for a bisexual organ.I hope you can support me and you accept me what i am
Imagine yourself as a young gay man or as a young lesbian, and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preference. To my beloved mom and dad, I wrote this letter for I have a secret things to reveal at you. From my childhood years up to this present that I kept it secret in so many years. I can't already manage myself to keep this secret. Now, it is the time to divulged about my personal being. That I belong to a third sex-hermaprodite. I do hope that you may accept me who am I. Nothing to be worried and shameless about my personality, because I can be compared to a normal guy. I know that third sex is now accepted and recognized by our society.
Una sa lahat binabati ko po kayo ng isang magandang araw, at naway nasa mabuti kayong kalagayan. Sumulat po ako sa inyo upang sabihing maayos lang po ako sa kinalalagyan ko ngayon at wag po kayong mag alala. At sa sulat na ito meron po akong mahalagang bagay na aaminin sa inyo, pero hindi ko alam kong paano ko sisimulan dahil natatakot po ako. Sa simulat simula palang po gusto ko ng aminin ito sa inyo, pero sa tuwing lumalapit ako sa iyo ay nawawalan ako ng tibay ng loob at inuunahan ako ng kaba dahil natatakot po ako sa magiging reaksyon ninyo at sa maging resulta nito. Itay, gusto ko pong aminin na sa loob ng aking pagiging lalaki ay isa akong pusong mamon. Alam ko po na sa oras na malalaman nyo ito ay hanggang langit ang galit nyo sa akin, alam kong mahirap tanggapin pero mas mahirap sa akin na itago ko ang tunay kong pagka tao habang buhay, ang tanging hiling ko lang ay sana unawain nyo po ako at matanggap ang aking pagka tao. Hindi ko na po kayang itago ang aking nararamdaman kaya sinasabi ko po sa inyo ang lahat ng ito at masaya na po ako kong ano ako ngayon. Sana ay naunawaan nyo ako sa kabila ng lahat ng ito. Hanggang dito nalang po.
Imagine yourself as a young gay man or as a young lesbian and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preference
Dear, ma@pa I have something to tell you about myself you want me to become a police but I cannot accept that it because i have something secret that you ever see to me. In the past few years i have a secret that i cannot say to you and also to my father it because i don’t want to see me like this but deep in my heart it difficult to me to hide this felling ma@pa I’m a guy and I love to a guy. So mom please forgive me i am getting this rogue woman and my feelings and I will hopefully keep you forgive me I make decisions so mother tell to all people that he know me that i’m a gay to know that im one of the member of the federation.
i know that you know me as your eldest daughter and as myself since when i was grade school.i feel like a boy and i dont want wear ladies cloths and as i grow older,mom you know me already because when i was 1st yaer high school you read my diary.and after you read you slap me because its hard for you to accept me who i am mom,your the only one who comforts me im sorry im happy beig me. mama , papa accept the reality that im a lesbian.but i assure you that i will be a good daughter and a good leader in our family. i dont give you any headaches and i know that your not alraedy accept me in my situation . mama , papa im sorry...and thank you for loving me ,care for me,guidance,protection and i hope you understand me .
Inay at Itay mayroon sana akong gustong sabihin sa inyo.Hindi ko lang masabi baka magalit kayo.Hindi ko na matiis ang aking damdamin na hindi sabihin sa inyo na isa akong bakla.Hindi ko masabi sa bibig kaya dinahan ko na lang sa liham.Masakit man aminin sa inyo pero ito talaga ang aking gusto.Sana ay maintindihan niyo ako.At matangap niyo pa rin ako nang buong-buo.Sana ay maunawaan niyo ang aking sitwasyon ngayon.
They say that if there is someone in this world who could understand you, that would be our parents. Everybody has its own secret as well. The only problem is, how to keep this secret of my own. I know that this will be hard for you to accept this but i have no choice but to say it to both of you. Am not what you think who I am. I cant live my life forever hiding something which i want everyone to know. Yes, I know that you love me but i can no longer act/of being someone else. This is not what i want. Am tired of pretending someone elses character. Mom, Dad, I am a lesbian i want you both to understand me as your daughter. I hope that you would accept me. Am sorry if i ever hurt your feelings, I apologized on that. I understand if you will be mad at me but i just want you to know that i i love you and i think i observed to be love also by you because after all, I am still your daughter whom you've loved from the very beginning.
Meron po akong nais na malaman niyo tungkol sa tunay kong pagkatao. Pagkatao na kung saan matagal ko nang inililihim sa inyo ni ina. Ama ko, ako po ay isang bakla. Hindi ko kasi mapigil ang babae kong damdamin na humanga o magkaroon ng ispesyal na pagtingin sa kapareha kong kasarian; lalake. Sana po ama ay mapatawad niyo po ako sa aking nagawa. Sinira ko ang iyong tiwala na ang kaisa-isa niyong anak na lalake na ngayon ay naging bakla na. Hayaan niyo po , mag-iipon ako ng lakas ng loob para humarap sa inyo ni ina para maipagmalaki niyo ako sa kabila ng aking pusong babae. At sana po ay matanggap niyo ako ni ina.
Dear Mama & Papa, When I began to write this letter, I’m getting nervous. I don’t know what your reactions would be. Ma, Pa, I have a problem to be revealed to you. I’m not a girl, considering myself belonging to the third sex. Let us say I’m a lesbian in short. Yes Ma and Pa, me your naughty daughter is a lesbian one. I hope you understand my sexual preference. I know it is a big sin to our God Almighty because he created only two genders but this is me, the real me. And maybe, this would be an advantage in my career becoming a policewoman someday. I do hope that you will understand me. I love you very much and may God bless you always. Loving daughter, Steph
Mahal kong Inay at Itay, Nais ko po sa nang ipagtapat sa inyo ang tunay kong kulay. Isa po ako sa mga taong berde ang kulay ng dugo. Sana po ay hindi kayo magugulat sa aking sasabihin, hindi po ako tunay na lalaki,isa po akong bakla. Alam ko naman po na walang lihim na hindi na ibubunyag. Matagal ko na po ito gustong sabihin, kaya lang po ay natatakot ako baka sipain niyo ako palabas ng bakuran. kahit ganito po ako, wala pa rin mag-iiba sa akin. Siguro pangalan ko lang po ang mag-iiba, sana'y kalimutan niyo na si christian, dahil ang anak niyo po ngayon ay walang iba kung di si christina. lol. Alam niyo lang po sana ang aking nararamdaman sa mga oras nato, ako po ay ubod ng saya. Bow! Mahal na mahal ko po kayong lahat.
JOURNAL ENTRY *Imagine yourself as a young gay man or as a young lesbian, and write letter to your parent s explain your sexual preference.
If I am a young gay man first of all I will express myself for who I am and I will tell the truth for what feeling that I have because whatever I do in my feelings but my feelings are still soft, but my sexuality are still male ,only your feelings are different. Nevertheless it gives god to me this kind of feelings so that, ill stand for it and this is a part of my trials, god gives me this, how do we transcend the life All testing in my life and, I do not make even one bad such as customs to engage in gay intercourse the important is I have not done badly and I am not violate the divine law. The trials or the problem is any time just before you come so that I just have to trust god with all my heart and with all my soul because life is just borrowed our lord, So I will do everything for fun just me. The combined path is also going through all or just an opposite of them. Therefore whatever happens I will never surrender.
LETTER FOR MY PARENTS Dear mom/dad First of all I would like to great you in a grateful day. Dear mom/dad I have something to tell you in a very important matter, it's about my sex. I know since I was born you cared me well, you help me everything and you love me so much, hopefully you understand what I say, mom and dad I am gay your son is gay, If forced to change myself but still, I long kept it in my life I particularly vulnerable because only when I kept it long, So I told you so you do not yet suspect and I need your reply once again sorry mom/dad
TRULY YUORS YOU’RE SON
COMPLIED BY ARCHIE AGUIMOD Posted by archie at 2:32 AM
I hope you stay calm and dont be shock as you read this letter of mine. This is only a matter of changing image. As a young individual who wants something new, I want to be a more braver woman. I don't know if this is identity crisis that they use to say, but i hope you understand me for who I'am and what i want to do with mylife. I know that its hard for you to accept me for who iam, specially with my sexual preferences that Im a lesbian.Im on the right age to decide on my own, But i hope you continue to support me in everything that i do, Guide me forever onwards
Ma, its about my sexual preference, I dont know who I am anymore, I think im in a two world. I am doubting with my sexuality.I hope you will understand me. I m still young and free to go with my own, but never give up on me as I started to get to know myself,I know its hard for you to0 accept me that iam a lesbian to be exact, idont know but i feel it. I hope you understand.
borrowed time IMAGINE YOURSELF AS YOUNG GAY MAN OR AS YOUNG LESBIAN MAN AND WRITE A LETTER TO YOUR PARENTS EXPLAINING YOUR SEXUAL REFERENCE?
IF i am a lesbian man ,gagawin ko ang lahat para lang maunlad ang buhay ko.magkaroon man ako ng kahit anong sakit,gaya nalamang na aids,iisipin ko nalang na wala ako nito,kaysa kung laging mong iisipin at parang wala kanang tiwala sa sarili mo para mabuhay pa ng matagal.pero para sa akin isa lamang itong pagsubok o kayay parusa ng panginoon sa akin.kaya tatanggapin ko nalang ng buong buo.alam nating lahat kahit anong gawin natin sa ating buhay, mananatili parin itong ganito ang importante may tiwala sa sarili at madasalin ng nasa puso.kaya psayahin ko nalang ang buhay ko dahil hirm ko lang ito sa ating dios.
by rose marrie maniklay Posted by rose marrie at 7:05 PM
Borrowed Time: An AIDS Memoir Imagine yourself as a young gay and or as a young lesbian, and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preferences.
Mom,
Before anything else I just want to say that I am thankful of having you as my parent, I love you. There is something I want to confess about my real sexuality. I'm a lesbian, and I want to say sorry for that. The truth is I'm not attracted with the opposite sex. I've tried to change this weird thing in me but I can't. Hope you will understand and accept me. I never meant to be like this but I just can't deny the fact that I have the appearance of a woman but a heart of a man. Sorry Mom, but this is me, this is where I'm going to be happy. I love you Mom. Lovingly yours, Noela Marie Valera
Borrowed Time: An AIDS Memoir Imagine yourself as a young gay or as a young lesbian, and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preferences.
Dear Ma and Pa,
Ma and Pa thank you for everything that you've given me, thank you for the love and for supporting me in my studies. Ma and Pa I have something to confess with regarding on my sexuality that I am a gay. I know that it is hard for you to understand but it is also hard for me to discuss it with you. I try my very best to change myself to become a straight man but my heart doesn't belong to my opposite sex. I don't know how you would react to this.I know that I'm just being true to my self because I can't sleep with this feeling inside me. I love being this way and I just consider it as a gift. I hope that you'll just accept me as your son.
Imagine yourself as a young gay man or a lesbian, and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preference.
Being a gay on my perception is being a huge task to take. On our kind of lifestyle and societal norms, definitely gays are not yet being welcomed. But by the way the world changes i think they can be swallowed by our fellow Filipino's and they will accept them by heart and by mind.
But on my side if i were a gay (SIMBAKO!!). I would still retain normal. Not flashy and not showy, just normal. I would like everyone to think that I'm not that kind of gay that they can mess with. I'll stand firm and be productive. Productive not in the sense of having a baby, but in the sense of being a character for everyone. A character that would be a symbol for gays and a symbol of good citizen. That kind of gay I would want to be.
...The Letter...
To my Parents,
Ma and Pa, you've known me for being me for a while, but i've been secretive. I've been keeping this secret for such a longtime now. I'm just choosing the right time to say this secret to you. Since I'm mature now and I'm independent, i think this is the right time to say this to you. Don't be shocked, just calm yourself, and just finish this letter. I know this would bot be an easy swallow for all of us. But this is the only way i can find to tell you. I'm GAY. That's right MA, Pa... Since college I've been keeping this to you. I can't hope for you to accept me but i hope you'll understand. Your ever loving and hoping son. CARLITO S. BANDIGAN Jr.
hindi dahilan ang pagiging bading ng isang tao, sahalip dapat pa natin itong ipagmalaki kasi ang mga bading ang siyang gumagawa ng palamuti sa langit at hindi balakid sa amin ang pagiging ganito upang gumawa ng kabutihan sa kapwa tao..kaya naniniwala ako sa kasabihang ang batang makulit pinapalo sa puyit ang baklang makulit tinitira sa puyit..ayyyyyy,ang sarrrraaapppppp...rrrrrrrrrggggggg
Ma,Pa ako po ay lubos na nagpapasalamat sa pagpapalaki ninyo sa akin..salamat sa mga soportang ibinigay ninyo sa akin, wala na akong mahihiling pa sa inyo,kundi ang taos pusong pagtanggap ninyo sa tunay na kasarian ko. matagal ko na itong itinatago ang lihim ng aking kahapon at kung inyong tatanggapin ay magiging bukas kuna..Ma, Pa ako po ay isang "BAYOT" sana po ay matanggap ninyo ako at isiping kapamilya pa rin..SALAMAT sa inyong pagintindi..
Ma, Salamat. Salamat sa iyong sacrepisyo para sa akin. Salamat sa lahat ng binigay mu sakin. Ibig kong humingi ng patawad sa mag kaSalinan ko Sau. Ma, saNa tangGapin mu Parin Ako kahIt aLam muna ang kaToTOhanan sa PagkaTao ko. Ako Po ay Isang babae. Ngunit nagmamahal rin po ako ng kapWa ko babae. Ako Po ay isang TOMBOY ma. patAwad po daHil nagLihim ako sau. Ngunit pinigilan ko po. Kaso natuloyan kya ito ako ngayon ma. Ma Patwad ulit. Sana may puwaNg parin ako sa in,u.
I know that you know me, but I know myself better than you two do. We all know that I am physically described as a lady and as far as you know I am. I've been wanting to talk to you since then about this kind of matter. But both of you are too busy on your chosen field of endeavors. So I've decided to wrote this kind of confession letter for the both of you. My dear parents, you know that i love you very much. You are always there for me. You always give me support. Those things are much appreciated and I thank you for that. From the time I turned 13 years old, I have this confusion about myself. How I would act, and dress myself. And I found it comfortable to dress-up like a boy and move like them. I don't like wearing dresses that are for girls. I feel uncomfortable. I feel much better wearing shirts and pants not blouses and skirts. I don't like to be with girls. They sometimes irritate me. I prefer to be with guys than gals. I hope you understand and accept me as i am. I promise I won't give you problems about this kind of matter.
Thank you for being good to me. I know you've done everything to show your countless love to me as your son. Thank you so much 'pa and 'ma for your full support, financially and emotionally. I don't know how to tell you my problem for the reason that you've expected a lot from me. I'm not perfect. I hope you'll understand my situation. I don't even choose to put myself into this kind of problem. Then, suddenly the day came that my feeling changes. I've noticed a lot of changes in my physical and emotional aspects. Mama, Papa I'm gay. I'm sorry if I can't meet your expectation. But I'll do my best for you to be proud of me. I love you so much mama and papa. Please understand me.
una sa lahat meron sana akong sabihin sayo tungkol ito sa aking fellings meron akong itinatagong sekreto na hindi ninyo pa nalalaman at ito ay ang pagiging benabae ko pilit ko mang itago sa sarili ko pero lumalababas paren ang aking pagkatotoo pa rin na ako'y isang bading at akoy umiibig sa kapwa ko lalaki. Makalipas ang mga taon nakita ko ito sa sarili ko ang pagiging ganito ko sana mapatawad ko ninyo ako at matanggap ninyo ako.
Magandang araw po sa inyo. Sana ay nasa maganda kayong kalagayan ngayon. Ma, pa, sinulatan ko po kayo dahil sa may importanteng bagay akong sasabihin sa inyo at sana ay maluwag sa inyong kaluoban ang sasabihin ko po. Sa daming karanasan sa aking buhay, ngayon ko lang ito naramdaman. Nagtataka ako nung una at sa aking palagay ay hindi po ako sigurado, marahil hindi pa buo ang aking isipan sa bagay na ito. Ngunit ng lumaon ay napagpuna ko na may kakaiba talaga akong nararamdaman sa aking pagkalalaki. Ma at pa, huwag sana magbago ang pagtingin niyo sa akin bilang anak, huwag niyo rin po sanang dibdibin ang sasabihin ko, at sana rin ay matanggap ninyo kung ano mang disisyon aking napagpasyahan at hindi sa kadahilanang ito'y hindi totoo, minsan hindi natin malalaman kung ano ang ating kapalaran, kusa na lang natin itong makikita o kaya'y dumarating sa ating buhay. Ma, pa, sana maintindihan niyo ang ako, isa po ako sa mga "shemale" na tinatawag nila. Bakla po ako. alam kong hindi niyo agad itong matatangap at alam ko ring masakit sa inyo po, pero umaasa pa rin akong mamahalin niyo ako tulad ng dating ako at mas higit pa po sana dahil kailangan ko po kayo, huwang kayong mag alala, hinding hindi ko po kayo bibigyan ng anumang problema ngayong ganito na ako at sana maunawaan niyo po kung ano man ako ngayon.
Imagine yourself as a young gay man or a lesbian, and write a letter to your parents expalaining your sexual preference. Good day! mom and dad, I have been a good son to our family. That your good son today, mom and dad, had a big problem of confession of one matter. Even if you expected a lot from me for being a police man someday to help our family. Maybe you cannot accept me now because I have been hide my sexuality over years..mom..dad? Me your son has a female hearted boy or in-short you may call me a gay person. Beside in my personality now, I hardly trying to be a good son to you my mom and dad. Sorry that I cannot continue my profession of being a police man. Because as time passes by. It is so very hard to hide my true personality. Hope that you can understand me as your son. I will take care of myself always so that you will not get worry for me, For now I will find myself and I will try to seek myself whom I belong to. Please take care always mom and dad.
Unang-una sa lahat nagpapasalamat po ako sa inyo sa pagpapalaki nyo sa akin at sa walang sawang pagsuporta. Alam kong hindi nyo matatanggap kong sasabihin ko sa inyo na ako po ay isang tomboy. Sana po ay maintindihan nyo po ako. Alam ko po na ayaw na ayaw nyo sa kinuha kong kurso dahil sabi nyo lalaki lang ang dapat kumuha nito, pero ito po yong gusto mula pa noon at gusto ko pong maging pulis baling araw. Ma, pasensya na minsan kong may pinapasuot kayo sa akin na suot pambabae ay hindi ko sinusuot, dahil hindi kop o talaga kaya ang magsuot nito. Pasensya rin minsan nay kung hindi ako nakikinig sa mga sinasabi nyo sa akin na yan, wag kang maglakad ng ganya.n, patawad p[o sa hindi pakikinig. Ma, Pa sana wag nyo akong itakwil bilang anak nyo at pinapangako kop o sa inyo na gagawin ko ang lahat para lang makatapos sa kursong kinuha ko na ayaw na ayaw nyo.Sana rin po unti-unti nyo akong matanggap. Maintindihan nyo po sana ako.
Mahal kong mga Magulang, May sasabihin po sana ako sa nyo, matagal ko na po sana itong sasabihin kaso natatakot ako na baka hindi nyo ako matanggapbilang anak nyo. Alam kong nag –iisa nyo akong lalaki na anak at puro na babae ang mga kapati d ko at alam ko rin po na gustong-gusto nyo ng anak na lalaki. Ma, Pa patawarin nyo po sana ako kung sasabihin kong isa po akong bakla. Mahirap din po sa akin kong hindi ko sasabihin ang aking unay na katauhan na isa akong bakla.Alam kong sa paningin ninyo na isang salot ang maging isang bakla. Pero sana po hindi ganyan ang pagtingin nyo sa akin. Pa, mas lalo po akong nahihiya sa inyo dahil ginagawa nyo ang lahat para lang po ako ay makatapos sa kursong gusto niyo. Aam kong gusto nyo talaga ako na maging isang pulis balang araw o maging isang kilalang pulis pero hindi ko po talaga kaya . Patawarin nyo po sana ako. Sana patawarin nyo ako at matanggap nyo po sana ako bilang anak nyo.
2. Imagine yourself as a young gay man or a lesbian, and write a letter to your parents.
Hello mom and dad.. I know its kinda awkward. I'd been wanting to tell you this for a long time.. I know its not easy for you to accept this same as I'm having hard time also telling you the truth. Mom, dad I'm having problem since then i found out that I'm lesbian. Yeah its kinda hard to accept. And its very disappointing in your part but this is what i feel for myself. Hope you could accept the fact.. I'm happy being who I am and being true to myself. Mom, dad sorry if I dissapointed you, Its not easy for me and i didn't meant to hurt you..
Good day Ma, Pa, I have something to confess. It bothers me for a long, long time. I keep it for how many years so that you will not get disappointed, but now I am ready to let go and show to the people and reveal it. Ma, Pa I’m a lesbian. I don’t know how did it come to me, I don’t know when or where it starts, I just feel it, I just feel that I like girls and I am so attract to girls. Ma, Pa I’m very sorry but this is the really me. This is what my mind and heart says. I can’t force my self to act like a real lady. I’m so sorry for being like this. I know that you’re expecting a grandchild from me. But I’m sorry to fail you’re wishes. I hope you understand my situation and I hope that you will accept me as me, as a lesbian daughter. I am ready to accept any punishment you want to give me. And now I feel very happy that I already reveal the truth to you. There’s a freedom now in my heart and I admit that I feel so happy that after all of these years, I let go of the things that bothers me. Thank you for everything my dear parents. I love you.
Magandang araw po sa inyo gusto sa kayong makausap dahil gusto kong malaman ninyo na meron akong tinatago sa inyo kahit alam ninyo ang aking pagkatao pero sa palagay ko ito na ang panahon upang malaman ninyo na isang akong bading umiibig po ako sa katulad kong lalaki nalaman ko na ito ng makita ko ang lalaking iniibig ko hindi ko lang masabi sa inyo dahil ayokong mawala ang pagmamahal ninyo sa kin p[ero siguro mas masakit sa inyo kong kayo mismo ang mamakaalam nito sana mapatawad ninyo ako.
Nagpadala ako ng liham sa inyo dahil mayron sana akong sasabihin sa inyo itoy tungkol sa aking pagkatao, noon pa man ay gusto ko nang sabihin sa inyo ang totoo dahil nahihirapan akong itago ang katotohanan kaya aaminin ko sa inyo na akoy isang bakla , umaasa akong maiintindihan nyo ang aking nararamdaman , sana hindi magbago ang tingin nyo sa akin bilang pinakamamahal nyong anak at umaasa rin mapapatawad nyo ako sa aking mga nagawang pagkakamali. “ang bunso nyong anak”
Nais ko pong malaman nyo ang tunay kong damdamin. Dahil nung nagkaisip po ako nararamdaman ko po sa aking damdamin at isipan na merong kakaiba. Kaya naisip ko ilahad ang saloobin at sana po ay hindi kayo mabigla, sana po ay inyong maintindihan na ang damdamin ko ay may pagka-babae. Hinihiling ko po na sana maintindihan nyo at matanggap. Tay, alam ko po na masakit sa inyo na tanggapin ang katotohanan na ang kaisa-isa nyong anak na lalake ay ngayon po ay isa nang bading. Matagal na pong panahon na itinago ko ito at ngayon lang ako nagkalakas ng loob dahil hindi ko po kayang itago ng matagal at magsinungaling sa inyo ni ina. Nay, alam ko pong maiintindihan nyo at tulungan nyo po ako na ipaliwanag kay itay ang tunay kong nararamdaman. Umaasa po ako na matanggap nyo po ako ng buong-buo katulad ng pagmamahal nyo sa akin nung ako'y bata pa.
To my beloved parent, thank for evrything. Ma and tay, im sorry , i know you have a lot of that youve expect on me . Ma i have somthing to tell you about my personality.Its hard for me na sabihin sa inyo ang totoo .dahil alam ko po na magalit kayo . Ma na hihirapan na kasi ako na itago sa inyo itong pagkatao ko. ayaw ko na rin magsinungaling sa inyo at pati na rin sa sarili ko. Ma isa poh akong babaeng may pusong lalake.sana mapatawad nyo ako ginawa ko ang lahat .na wag sundin ang gusto ng puso ko . i hope htat you will understand me. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS .
Borrowed Time: An AIDS Memoir Imagine yourself as a young gay man or as a young lesbian and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preference.
Dear Ma and Pa,
Mabait naman po akong anak di ba? Ginagawa ko po ang lahat ng inyong mga gusto para sa aking kinabukasan. Tapos sabi nyo po na gusto po ninyo akong maging isang pulis balang araw. Ma..Pa..sorry po kung hindi na po yun matutupad dahil sa isa po akong lalaki na may pusong babae. Unuulit ko po na isa po akong bakla at handa ko na pong harapin ang kapalaran kung anu mang meron po ako. Kahit ganito po ang kalagayan ko ay gusto ko po rin kayong bigyan ng maginhawang buhay. Hahanapin ko po ang aking kapalaran sa pagiging bakla ko po at sana po ay matanggap po ninyo kung ano po ako ngayon. Salamat po sa lahat ng pag-aaruga nyo po sa akin at mahal na mahal ko po kayo.
Dear Ma'y at Pa'y; Ako'y sumulat ng liham na ito sa na may malking kadahilanan sa aking buhay. Alam ko na minamahal ninyo ako at nais kong malaman niyo na mahal ko po rin kayo. Sa mundong ito may mga pangyayari na hindi natin akalain subalit sadyang iyan ang katotohanan. Hindi natin ginusto ngunit nangyari. Masakit at labag man sa kaluoban ngunit kailangan tanggapin ng buong puso. Sa akinng mga pinakamamahal na magulang nais kung malaman ninyo na ang nag iisang anak ninyo ay isang BAKLA. Alam ko po na kayo'y magugulat, mamangha, magalit,at hindi makapaniwala sa tunay kung pagkatao at dinadamdam.Hindi ko po ito ginusto at pinangarap man lang sa buhay kung ito. Ngunit, ito'y marahil biyaya ng Dios sa akin. Ako po ay humihingi ng taos pusong paumanhin sa inyo. Patawarin nyo ako at aking dinadasal na ako'y inyong matanggap at hindi ipagtabuyan. Mahal na mahal ko po kayo ma pakailan man.
Magandang araw po sa inyo. Salamat sa pagpapalaki n'yo sa sakin ng mabuti at mahal na mahal ko po kayo. Habang lumalaki po ako ay unti-unti ko pong nararamdaman na akoy naiiba sa kanila. Marahil nga nung bata pa ako'y nagtataka kayo kung bakit hindi ako mahilig sa paglalaro na Basketball o maging sa Boxing at mas nagka-kainteris pa po ako sa mga bulaklak. Ciguro nga panahon na para malaman n'yo kung ano ang aking tunay na nararamdaman. Ang totoo'y ako ay nagkakagusto sa isang lalaki't hindi sa mga babae. Ma'Pa ako'y isang bakla, sanay tanggap n'yo kung ano man ako. Ito talaga ang nararamdaman ko. Sanay naintihan n'yo.
I want you to know that everything that you see in me is not the real me.because the truth is I am not the handsome son that you know. I am the GORGEOUS daughter of yours. I don't want to hurt you but this is the real me. I hope you accept me for who I am. lovingly yours, GORGEOUS!
May gusto po sana akong sabihin sa inyo. Ito po ay personal na bagay na matagal ko nang nililihim sa sarili ko. Sana pos a oras na malaman ninyo ang lihim kong ito ay sana’y maintindihan ninyo ako. Ma, Pa di ko na po kayang itago ang buong pagkatao ko kaya habang maaga pa sasabihin ko na ang totoo. Isa po akong tomboy. . Hindi man po kayo maniwala sa sinabi ko dahil hindi nyo mapansin ngunit iyan po ang totoo. Hindi ko po nais saktan kayo pero ito po ang paraan para matanggap nyo ako.Patawarin po sana ninyo ako sa ginawa ko sa inyo. Huwag nyo pong isipin na hindi kayong mabuting mga magulang dahil ang totoo po’y ipinagsisigawan kop o sa buong mundo na maswerte ako na ako ang anak ninyo sa kabila ng mga ginawa ko. Sana mapatawad ninyo ako sa mga naging kasalanan ko sa inyo. Pagdating po ng tamang panahon na kayak o nang humarap sa inyo ng personal ay sana’y pakinggan ninyo ako at maintindihan. Ma, Pa hindi po ako perpektong tao, tao lang po ako na marunong masaktan at may karapatang maging masaya sa buhay. Huwag po kayong mag-alala, alam kop o ang ginagawa ko sa buhay. Nasa maayos po akong kalagayan. Ma, Pa mahal na mahal ko po kayo at kahit kamuhian man ninyo ako hindi ko po kayo masisisi. Ituturing ko pa rin kayong ginto sa buhay ko at dadalhin ang gintong ito habang buhay.
Siguro wala kayong idea kong bakit ako sumulat, for the 1st time sumulat ako sa inyo, hindi ko lang po kasi kayang sabihin ng harapan. I simply write this letter for a confession, a big revelation rather... Ma, pa, thank you for being a good parents to me, a appreciated it very much, and I'm sorry if I act like spoiled brat, and disobedient to both of you, pero minsan lang nman po yon eh... hehehe:)) The truth is i don't know when and where to start, but I just want you yo know na kahit anong mangyari, ako parin po to i Ivy ang anak ninyo. Sabi nyo po noon na panahon na para magpaligaw o tumanggap na ako ng mga manliligaw, pero kahit na kaylan po hindi po nagpaligaw at ayokong magpaligaw, dahil ako po ang manliligaw at hindi sa isang lalaki, kundi sa isang babae, upo! tama pong nabasa nyo, sa isang babae... ma pa ako po ay tumboy, nalaman ko lang po ito nong tumibok ang puso ko sa isang babae na kailan man hindi sa isang lalaki... Pero ma pa, ako parin naman po to, hindi magbabago, nagbago lang po ang katauhan ko pero, ako parin to... hubaran man ako ng bunggang-bongga!! ay talaga nanmang makikita ang makinis kong kutis babae, pero puso, isip at kaluluwa koy talagang lalaking-lalaki.:( Ma pa ito po ang katutuhan, sana po akoy inyong maintindihan...
Magandang araw po sa inyo. Kumusta? Minabuti ko pong daanin ito sa sulat. Meron po sana akong gustong ipagtapat sa inyo. Ito po ay tungkol sa aking kalagayan. Matagal ko po itong itinatago sa inyo. Tungkol po ito sa aking nararamdaman. At siguro ay ito na po ang tamang pagkakataon. Ako po ay ay hindi tunay na lalaki. ako po ay bakla. Sana ay maintidihan niyo ako.
sumulat po ako sa inyo dahil miron po sana akung ipag tapat sa inyo,salamat po sa inyong walang pa suporta sa akin at sa pag papalaki ninyo ng maayos na mayroong takot sa diyos,sana pag malaman na ninyo ang tunay kong pagkatao ay huwag sana kayong magalit sa akin at tanggapin ninyo parin ako bilang anak ninyo,ma pa hindi ko na po papatagalin ito isa po akung BAKLA alam ko mahirap sa inyo na tanggapin na kung ano ako piro yon po talaga ang pagkatao, ma pa salamat sa lahat at mahal na mahal ko po kayo
Una sa lahat nais ko pong aminin sa iyo na sana inyong pong mamarapatin ang aking kalagayan ngayon dahil hindi ko na po mapaipagkaila na akoy isang bading noong una po gusto ko pong sabihin at ipadama sa iyo at sa iba kong kasamahan at mga kaibigan ng sa ganon maintindihan ninyo kong sino ba talaga ako sa ngayon nais ko pong ipaalam at sabihin sa inyo ang aking sitwasyon ako po talaga ay isang bakla nong una iba na ang aking nararamdaman para bang tumitibok ang aking puso sa mga lalaki at sa naging katagalan parang may pumaopasok sa aking isipan na ang sarap na maging buhay bakla maraming lalaki ang ang aking nagugustohan sana mpatawad ninyo ako.
When I was in my childhood, I thought that life would be an easier for me. But as I grew up I learned a lot of things that we as an individual have differences. Many of them ask, how’s your life? And I would say I’m ok, but beyond those answers is tears, frustration, and doubts. I thought I’m ok but I resist the fact that I’m not. Pa and Ma I hope that when you read this letter you will not get angry with me, coz I know what ever happen to me, you will there for me, that’s why I’m not afraid to confess this feeling that I have. Papa and Mama I am not a real girl as you’ve known, I try to hide this but I was failure to do it, Pa and Ma I am a Lesbian, I cannot control myself, I’m going to show to them who I am or who is the real me. Mama and Papa I’m really sorry, but I have to find myself somewhere I belong. Ma and Pa I hope that you will understand, God knows how much I love you both, and I know that you will accept me for who I am, I’m really sorry again Mama and Papa.
Kumusta na po kayo, sana nasa mabuti kayong kalagayan ngayon. May sasabihin sana ako sa inyo, siguro ito na ang tamang pagkakataon na sabihin ko sa inyo ang katotohanan na matagal ko nang inililihim sa inyo. Maintindihan nyo ako sa aking naging disisyon ngayon na ilabas ang totoo kong nararamdaman na akoy isang BAKLA, alam kong mahirap tanggapin ang isang katulad kong bakla at alam kong nasaktan ko kayo dahil pinaasa ko kayo na akoy isang tunay na lalaki pero hindi pala. Hanggang ditto nalang!!!Joyjoy
ma pa, i have something to tell you that it well really bang your world.. did you ever notice that childhood every time you give me toy like gun i always stack it in the corner its because the toy i want is doll or a children make up kit..mama papa i am guy..a girl. and not a boy hoe you well accept me for who i am...
your loving and BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER warren... a.k.a (♥ERIKA♥)
Meron sana akong sasabihin sa inyo tungkol ito sa aking pagkatao. Alam niyo naman ang pagkatao ko. Pero meron pa akong isang sekreto na hindi ko pa sa inyo na ibubunyag at ito ang pagiging binabae ko. Mahirap man tangapin sa loob ng puso niyo. Pero sa tingin ko ito ang nararapat kaya sana mapatawad ninyo ako. Pilit ko mang turuan ang damdamin kung gawin ang nararapat sa inyo. Pero hind ko talaga kaya dinitiktahan ang puso ko na gawin ito. Isa na don ang hindi ko pagtanggap sa pagiging pulis dahil baka pagtatawanan lang nila ako sa kinikiklos ko. Sana akoy pagbigyan ninyo ako. Nagmamahal din ako katulad ng pagmamahal ko sa inyo.
MA,PA, it's been a long time since i have shared to you my thoughts and feelings.I remember when I was a child, every pain that I feel and every single idea that comes up into my mind, I never hesitated to tell you. And now I have a confession to make. Ever since, I've been obeying you for what you wanted me to be.But this time i wanted to be true to myself. At first I thought this would just pass and go. Unwillingly I noticed myself that I am admiring my same sex friends. You've mdeme no mistake in raising me. Ma, Pa, i am still your junior! i am GAY and i'm proud to be one. im sorry.
Magandang araw po sa inyo. Alam kong nasa mabuti kayong kalagayan ngayon. Huwag kayong mag-alala, ako'y nasa mabuti ring kalagayan yun nga lang may kaunting pagbabago sa aking sarili. Ama, huwag po sana kayong mabibigla. Ina, alam kong susuportahan niyo ako kung ano man ang maging pasya ko. Itay, inay, mahalaga po ninyong malaman ang aking hinanaing tungkol dito. Alam ko po na hindi niyo agad itong matatanggap, nay, tay, bakla po ako. Wala po kayong pagkakamali sa pagpapalaki sa akin, huwag niyo po itong isisi sa inyong mga sarili, pero tay, nay, hindi ko po kayang magpanggap. Kailangan ko pong tanggapin kung ano anko at sana ganun din kayo.
Well, I made this letter to express my feelings and to share to you what I want to say.
Mom, Dad I'm a lesbian I'm sorry I can't hide it anymore....let's just accept the fact that this me you're new son!! even though you lost a very beautiful daughter at least you have now a handsome son..ohhh diba??
I want to share something about my life that is important because I love you. I am gay. I have only known this about myself since I was 9. In the years that have passed since then, keeping this a secret from you has become more and more of a burden. It has also placed an invisible wall between us in that I can not share with you much of what goes on in my life, something that straight children take for granted. I could not share the excitement of dating somebody new nor the pain when things didn't work out. I have spent many nights crying with a broken heart, alone, unable to call you for support.
I know that you may be feeling shocked, confused, angry, and sad; and perhaps you might feel that, somewhere along the way, you have failed as parents. From what I have read, these are common reactions. You have not failed as parents; you have both been wonderful. Nobody chooses to be gay and I accept myself and am happy with who I am. My friends have > known for some time and they accept me as well. I hope that you will be happy for me.
Part of me thinks that you might have suspected for some time that I am gay since I never brought home girls while in school and I never talk about dating or women now. On the other hand, my being gay may have come as a complete surprise to you and you may need to take some time to get used to the idea. Hopefully, a few years from now, our relationship will be closer than it has been in the past. This is part of the reason I am coming out to you: to tear down the wall between us. When we speak on the phone and you ask me what is going on in my life and I say, "Nothing," I have been lying. I haven't been lying to deceive you, but because I could not tell you the truth. This lying has been eating at me for some time now and I'm tired of it. So this was the choice I had to make: either keep lying and allow us to grow even farther apart from each other, or tell the truth and hopefully have a better relationship in the long run.
I know you have always loved me very much. It was very hard to mail this letter for fear of losing that love. I have cried several times while writing it. Although you may not understand about being gay, I hope that you still love me now. Know that I am the same person now as I was before you read this letter; you just know one more thing about me. I am still "eden mark."
I want to share something about my life that is important because I love you. I am gay. I have only known this about myself since I was 25. In the years that have passed since then, keeping this a secret from you has become more and more of a burden. It has also placed an invisible wall between us in that I can not share with you much of what goes on in my life, something that straight children take for granted. I could not share the excitement of dating somebody new nor the pain when things didn't work out. I have spent many nights crying with a broken heart, alone, unable to call you for support.
I know that you may be feeling shocked, confused, angry, and sad; and perhaps you might feel that, somewhere along the way, you have failed as parents. From what I have read, these are common reactions. You have not failed as parents; you have both been wonderful. Nobody chooses to be gay and I accept myself and am happy with who I am. My friends have known for some time and they accept me as well. I hope that you will be happy for me.
Part of me thinks that you might have suspected for some time that I am gay since I never brought home girls while in school and I never talk about dating or women now. On the other hand, my being gay may have come as a complete surprise to you and you may need to take some time to get used to the idea. Hopefully, a few years from now, our relationship will be closer than it has been in the past. This is part of the reason I am coming out to you: to tear down the wall between us. When we speak on the phone and you ask me what is going on in my life and I say, "Nothing," I have been lying. I haven't been lying to deceive you, but because I could not tell you the truth. This lying has been eating at me for some time now and I'm tired of it. So this was the choice I had to make: either keep lying and allow us to grow even farther apart from each other, or tell the truth and hopefully have a better relationship in the long run.
I know you have always loved me very much. It was very hard to say this letter for fear of losing that love. I have cried several times while writing it. Although you may not understand about being gay, I hope that you still love me now. Know that I am the same person now as I was before you read this letter; you just know one more thing about me. I am still "eden mark."
Well, I'm so thankful that you we're my parents cause you gave me everything that I want you're love, care and understanding..mama, papa,,I'm sorry if sometimes I hurt your feelings it's just that I'm still human no perfect..
You we're the best parents ever guy's..I can really say that you perfectly raise a cute, smiling and kind girl ever!! just kidding..but seriously that's true.
By the way I made this letter to have confession to both of you or maybe I can say it is like sharing what I really feel..I'm sorry if ever I'm gonna disappoint you but what ever happen I'm still your cute daughter. Ma, Pa I'm a lesbian, I'm sorry but this is me. But if you are going to accept my new sexual preference God knows I will be very grateful..
Thanks and I Love You both nothing gonna change my love for you!!
mahal kung ina at ama una sa lahat magandang araw sa inyo.mayron po sana akong nais ipagtatapat sa inyo sana po ako ay inyung maintindihan.ma pa isa po akung tomboy sana po wag kayung magagalit at sana matangap ninyo ako kasi mula pagka bata ay ganito na talaga ako.mahal na mahal ko po kayo kaya ngayon kulang ito sinabi sainyo hirap na po akung magtago.wag nyo sanang ikasama ang pa amin ko na ganito na talaga ako..
Meron akong ipagtatapat sa inyo, Ako po ay isang bakla. Noon ko pa ito gustong sabihin ngunit nahihiya ako at baka kapag sinabi ko sa inyo agad ang sekreto ko ay ikahiya ninyong may anak kayong isang bakla. Minsan gusto ko nang ipakita sa lahat ng tao na bakla ako, subalit iniisip ko rin na baka pagtawanan nila ako at basta na lamang saktan ang damdamin ko. Ako manay isang bakla ngunit may respeto at pagbibigay galang naman ako sa inyo. Hindi nyo man lubos maisip na kung bakit hindi ninyo agad napansin kung ano ang mga nakatagong pagkatao ko, dahil sa hindi ako nagdadamit ng mga kasuotan ng mga bakla. Ngunit sa likod ng mga kasinungalingan iyon ako ay humihingi ng paumanhin sa hindi ko pagsabi agad ng katotohanan sa inyong dalawa. Hindi ko kaya na hanggang sa patanda ko ay itatago ko na lamang ang pagiging bakla. Ako ay may pusong babae at nagkakagusto ako sa mga lalake. Lalong-lalo na kung gwapo, matipuno, maganda ang pangangatawan, at higit sa lahat tanggap kung ano ang meron ako at kung ano ako. Marami akong nagugustuhang lalake at kung minsan nga ay masaabi ko sa aking sarili na "I'm Inlove!" sa isang lalake dahil sa masaya ako kapag nakikita kop siya. Para bang naiisip ko narin na ako'y isang tunay na babae na marunong ding magmahal nang isang tunay na lalake.
Here is my version of my letter..Hmmmmm here we go.
Dear Mom and Dad,
I was thinking about about something for quite a time now. And I guess I have to let it out because I cannot bear the burden anymore. I always live to your expectations since I was a child and now that I am of the age where I think I can make sound decisions on my own. Ma, Pa, I d not know if you will be happy or what with this. I will tell it to you straight. I am a lesbian. I want to be the perfect princess that you wish me to be..but it’s just that I can’t. I prayed and prayed that if there is a chance I could change my self then I would take all the risk just to be that princess. Mom, dad, I did not want this nor I wish that I would be like this. But this is me...I love you ma and pa. I hope you would still accept me as your daughter. Maybe that I wasn’t the typical “she” but my enormous love and respect towards you changed nothing even a bit. I wish you would still be proud of me despite everything of what I have confessed to you. I repeat, I do not want this. I did not wish this to happen to me but I just wake up one morning and i realized that I may be the girl outside, I am not anymore inside. I love you both ma and pa... I will remain the loving daughter you will always have.
Maybe I go this way, Pa, Ma, I'm sorry because, I have a secret I kept since i was a kid, I'm not a kind of person you think I'am, I dont know how it happen but it was came and I cannot control of what I feel, I know, you'll be angry, that's why I wrote a letter for you to understand me, Ma, Pa, I feel I'am not a woman, I feel like a man who desire to be with my own sex, Hope you can understand.
Pa,Ma alam kong pinalaki ninyo ako ng maayos at may takot sa diyos, isang mabuting bata at kailangan maging matapat ako sa bawat oras, ngunit sa itinatagal tagal na oras ngayon ko lang po ako nag lakas loob na sabihin at aminin sa inyo ang tunay na ako, Pa,Ma patawad po, ngunit hindi ako batang lalaki na ina asam-asam nyo, mahirap man pong paniwalaan ngunit may puso po akong mamon, isa po akong bakla, at nais ko pong matanggap ninyo ang tunay na ako,at kung sino ako. Hangang dito na lang po, mahal ko po kayo.
Imagine yourself as a young gay man or as a young lesbian,and write a letter to your parent explaining your sexual preference.
ReplyDeleteDear Mom,
Ive been thinking this a hundred times on how to say it with you,that if you would hear me explaining,you will not get hurt...Because I'm afraid that you can't forgive me.Since I was a kid,your expecting me to be a man when I grow up that I will be the one you can lean on when you feel down but how could I be posibly be that man when all along,I want to be a woman,I'm sorry mom for being like this I've tried hard to keep it but I cant take it anymore,I am a man but my heart is woman,I'm begging for your forgiveness.
mahal kong mga magulang,
ReplyDeleteMeron po sana akong gustong sabihin sa inyo. Matagal ko na po itong gustong sabihin.kaso hindi ko lng agad masabi- sabi dahil baka magalit po kayo.ito po ay tungkol sa aking personal na buhay,sa totoolang po,ako ay isang bakla,tinatago ko lang sa inyo dahil baka magalit kayo. Hindi ko rin sinabi sa personal, kaya dinaan konapo nalang sa isang liham.patawad po kung sa ganito aku, wala namang masama sa pagiging bakla..di po ba? Pero kahit ganito po ako,sana ay ituring nyo po ako bilang inyong anak. Sana po ay naiintindihan nyo ako
Dear Ma and Pa,
ReplyDeleteHave a pleasant day to both of you! Ma, Pa, did I ever tell you my sexual preference? Well anyway, I just want both of you to know that whatever I would tell you at this period of time, this is still me, your son. Ma, Pa, I wanna be a gay. I know it's not easy for you to hear these words but I hope that time will come for you to understand and accept me for who I am. I want to wear those fit clothes, wearing my red stilletoes, putting some make-up and wearing accessories. Oh! It's so damn funny! LOL. There were so many things I usually do when you're not around. I usually speaks such gay words because whenever I do it, I enjoy, and I myself is able to capture and interpret who really I am as a person and as your son. Probably my character will be changed, but not my personality. I love you both!
Love lots,
Grin
Mahal kung mga magulang, Ma,Pa.
ReplyDeletesalamat sa lahat ng inyoung pag-aaruga sa amin at sa pagpapalaki nyo sa aming magkakapatid.kahit na minsan ay lumalabas ang aming mga ugali na hindi maganda patuloy parin kayo sa pag-intindi at pagpapaalala ng tama at mali.
Dahil dyan naglakas loob akung ipaalam sa inyo ang matagal kunang nais ipaalam sa inyo, at sana ay maunawaan nyo ako.
Ma,Pa.Bakla Po ako matagal kona Po sanang sasabihin sa inyo kaya lang natatakot Po ako pero talagang kailangang malaman na Po ninyo na ang anak ninyo ay in love sa kapwa lalaki.
Ma,Pa.patawarin nyo Po ako pangako Po hindi ako magiging pabigat at sakit ng ulo ninyo. Ma,palagi kitang aayosan at pagagandahin para mawala ang iyong mga problema.at ikaw Pa,mamasahihin kita palage para ma relax ka.
Ma,Pa. hanggang dito na muna ang sulat ko at sa isang buwan uuwe ako dyan.
Lubos na gumagalang ang inyong anak
Nagmamahal Lyssa Pearl.
Dear Ma and Papa,
ReplyDeleteFirst, I would like to say thank you for everything that you gave me; for the love, care and support. Ma and Pa, I didn't know how I'm supposed to tell you this.After this confessions, I didn't know too if you'll still accept me as your son.Every day I keep on doing things to make you proud and to see how you are that you have me in your life. And now I'm old enough and I think that this is a right time to let you know the truth. I was born with a ladies heart or should I say I am a gay. But you know,I was trying to become a real man. Yes I did, I did it physically. Act like a real, even though is against in my part and in my heart. Many years of my existence I was hiding the real me,and I too suffer. Everyday I ask my self "was I being cursed?" I know I am physically, mentally and emotionally fit, but why they are not consistent? Being like this, this is not easy, but you know Ma and Pa, if theres only medicine that could cure this undesirable state of my life, I would take it. But I know theres none. Perhaps if I die, and that is the only cure. Ma and Pa I am very sorry to disappoint you. I hope you'll understand.I love you as much as you loved me.
Your Son
Jeff Loid
Mahal kong Inay,
ReplyDeleteUna sa lahat, magandang araw sa inyo. Sana nasa mabuti kang kalagayan ngayon. Nay, May gusto sana akong aminin sa inyo, pero alam kong hindi pormal na sa sulat ko sasabihin ang tungkol sa tunay kong pagkatao. Nay, gusto kong malaman mo na masakit din sa loob ko na aaminin sa inyo na isa akong tomboy. Alam kong masakit para sa inyo bilang isang magulang na malaman ang tungkol sa akin.
Nay, Hindi ko na kayang mag panggap pa na isa akong tunay na babae, ngunit sa kaloob-looban ng aking puso ay isa akong lalaki. Nay alam kong isang malaking panloloko ang paglihim ko ng katotohanan sa inyo at bilang isang magulang alam kong hindi ito madaling tanggapin. Nay, patawarin nyo po ako, dahil ganito na talaga ako, at gusto ko naring mamuhay ng walang halong pag papanggap. Naniniwala ako na darating ang isang araw na matatanggap nyo ako bilang isang ganap na lalaki. Mahal na mahal ko po kayo kaya labag din sa kalooban ko na saktan kayo. Patawad po sa inyo, at naway ang katotohanan ay syang mapapalaya sa atin. Lubos na gumagalang
Margiere
How does Mr. Duran feel about becoming a member of the Mooney family?
ReplyDeleteWell, maybe he won't be happy cause he is just marrying Polly for the sake of his reputation not because he love the girl. He is afraid of loosing his honor if he will just leave Polly behind and forget the issues. Sometimes the decision of individuals today about marriage issue isn't base of love but because of responsibility they shouldered for the one person.In Mr. Duran case he is well accepted base to the demonstration of the author in the story because Mrs. Mooney is confident that Polly well have a good life together with him.But I don't think Mr.Duran will be happy in marrying Polly cause as I mentioned above he is just marrying the girl just for his reputation not for the reason of love.
For me I can fell that it would be difficult to be on Mr. Duran's place because it is very different that you entered the kingdom of marriage to be with your love one than marrying someone for honor. He is not happy to be one of of the Mooney Family. And there marriage won't be happy.
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ReplyDeleteQuestion: How Mr. Doran feel about becoming a member of the Mooney family? For me of being fear about the becoming member of Mooney family. Why fear? Because as a man it is normal for us to feel the fear, especially in this situation. It is hard for a man to feel comfortable to become a new member of the family especially those family you don’t know well. And as Mr. Doran part it is un prepared marriage, he did not expect that it would be happen. And even though he hesitates to make a decision regarding to his problem if he would marry Polly or he would run away, still he choose Polly than to his own happiness. Because he is afraid to lost his honor and reputation in their society. It would be ashamed to his family if he would run away. And as a man I admire Mr. Doran, because he face his responsibility , and being a man its for us to marry the person without love. There for we need to be careful in doing thing. We need to think it wisely, because repentance is always at last.
Question: How mr. Duran feel about becoming a member of mooney family?
ReplyDeleteAns. In that certain situation most probably the man would be happy because he will be engaged to the woman he love. They will not be separated in the eyes of God. On the other side of the coin, there is a guilt that the man feels because they are not yet supposed to be engaged. The girl is too young to enter that deep relationship. So the man will partially be happy and guilty.
una sa lahat, gusto kong malaman nyo na nagpapasalamat ako sa pagpapalaki sa akin ng maayos. ito ay tinatanaw ko bilang isang malaking utang na loob. habang binabasa niyo ang sulat na ito, malamang ay nasa malayong lugar na ako. hindi ko na kayang itago ang nararamdaman ko at parang sasabog na ang puso ko sa hirap. ako po ay isang SIRENA at hindi ko ito kinakahiya. sana po ay maunawaan niyo ang kalagayan ko at hindi niyo ako itrato na katulad ng ibang mga bakla. hindi po ako basta-basta..hard to get ako pero easy to use...huhuhuhu...sana po au matanggap niyo ang aking piniling buhay at sana ay ingatan niyo ang inyong mga sarili. lalayo ako upang magpa sex change at babalik na isa ng ganap na magandang babae.hindi masasayang ang pinakain niyo sa akin..paalam..mahal ko kayo..
ReplyDeleteMahal kong ama't ina,
ReplyDeleteNais ko pong malaman nyo ang tunay kong damdamin. Dahil nung nagkaisip po ako nararamdaman ko po sa aking damdamin at isipan na merong kakaiba. Kaya naisip ko ilahad ang saloobin at sana po ay hindi kayo mabigla, sana po ay inyong maintindihan na ang damdamin ko ay may pagka-babae. Hinihiling ko po na sana maintindihan nyo at matanggap. Tay, alam ko po na masakit sa inyo na tanggapin ang katotohanan na ang kaisa-isa nyong anak na lalake ay ngayon po ay isa nang bading. Matagal na pong panahon na itinago ko ito at ngayon lang ako nagkalakas ng loob dahil hindi ko po kayang itago ng matagal at magsinungaling sa inyo ni ina. Nay, alam ko pong maiintindihan nyo at tulungan nyo po ako na ipaliwanag kay itay ang tunay kong nararamdaman. Umaasa po ako na matanggap nyo po ako ng buong-buo katulad ng pagmamahal nyo sa akin nung ako'y bata pa.
Mahal kong Ama,
ReplyDeleteUna sa lahat magandang araw sayo. At sana nasa mabuti kang kalagayan ngayon.Pa , may gusto sana akong aminin sayo, pero hindi ko alam kong paano ko ito sisimulan dhil inunahan ako ng kaba at takot sa magiging resulta nito. Pero pa habang tumatagal mas lalo akong nahihirapan na ilihim sa inyo ang katotohanan.Dahil habang tumatagal ay patuloy ko kayong niloloko at ang aking sarili. Pa , alam kong pag nalaman nyo ito ay abot langit amg galit nyo sa akin, pero naniniwala ako na ito na ang tamang panahon para malaman nyo ang katotohanan. Pa, sa kabila ng aking pagka lalaki ay doon nag tatago ang tunay kong pagka tao na bakla ako. Pa, patawarin nyo po ako dahil ganito na talaga ako at ayw ko ng mamuhay pa ng may halong pag papa nggap. Pa, alam kong mahirap tanggapin ang katotohanan, pero ito ang totoo at ang katotohanan ay syang mag papalaya sa atin. Na niniwala ako na darating ang araw na matatanggap nyo ako bilang ako. Hanggang dito na lang.Lubos na gumagalang
Sa aking Mahal na mga magulang,
ReplyDeleteSumusulat po ako sa inyo dahil gusto kong magtapat ng aking tunay na pagkatao. Sana maintidihan po ninyo ako, wag po sana kayong magalit sa akin. At wag kayong magugulat sa aaminin kosa inyo. Hindi ko ginusto na maging ganito ako, na maging isang lesbian.. ngunit wala po akong magawa. Ganito na talaga ako. Ginawa ko na ang lahat ..pinilit ko na maging isang tunay na babae ngunit hindi ko talaga kaya. Hindi ko gustong ipahiya kayo sa ibang tao sa pagkakaroon niyo ng anak na lesbiana. Alam ko pong hindi niyo inaasahan na maging ganito ako. Ngunit nabigo ko kayo. Sana po matanggap niyo pa rin ako bilang anak ninyo. Patawad po sa lahat ng nagawa ko. Muli, partawad po at sana matanggap po ninyo ang tunay kong pagkatao. Hanggang ditto na lang po ako. Maraming salamat po sa lahat. Mahal na mahal ko po kayo.
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ReplyDeleteMy dearest parents,
ReplyDeleteUna sa lahat gusto ko po na malaman niyo na mahal na mahal ko kayo. Salamat po sa pagmamahal at pag-aaruga sa akin. Siguro po nagtataka kayo bakit sumulat ako sa inyo hindi ko po kasi kaya sabihin sa personal, sana ay maintindihan niyo po ako. Kung dati po ay Jun2x ako ngayon po ay Jean2x na. Oo inay at itay bakla ako noon pero ngayon babae na talaga. Sanay tanggapin niyo kung kung may nag-iisa na kayong dalaga sa pamilya. Sana rin po ay maintindihan ako ng mga kuya at aturing nila akong tunay na kapatid na babae.
Nagmamahal jean2x
Borrowed time
ReplyDeleteI have something to tell you my dear parents.I hope you undertsand what i am to tell you now.I can't say it to you in personal but.,In the way in writting a letter ,I express my feeling and a little secre that i have made.This is the time to tell you that i am a gay,for how long,.I cannot blame myself that am i gay this is my choice for being of it.I'm happy for of this.Ill know you amaze for what i'm telling to you now and i hope you accept me,for what I'am you can't change your attention of me.As a son.Im ready for what you said to me or it is good or bad.All I can say it I'm happy for a bisexual organ.I hope you can support me and you accept me what i am
Imagine yourself as a young gay man or as a young lesbian, and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preference.
ReplyDeleteTo my beloved mom and dad, I wrote this letter for I have a secret things to reveal at you. From my childhood years up to this present that I kept it secret in so many years. I can't already manage myself to keep this secret. Now, it is the time to divulged about my personal being. That I belong to a third sex-hermaprodite. I do hope that you may accept me who am I. Nothing to be worried and shameless about my personality, because I can be compared to a normal guy. I know that third sex is now accepted and recognized by our society.
Mahal kong Ama,
ReplyDeleteUna sa lahat binabati ko po kayo ng isang magandang araw, at naway nasa mabuti kayong kalagayan. Sumulat po ako sa inyo upang sabihing maayos lang po ako sa kinalalagyan ko ngayon at wag po kayong mag alala. At sa sulat na ito meron po akong mahalagang bagay na aaminin sa inyo, pero hindi ko alam kong paano ko sisimulan dahil natatakot po ako. Sa simulat simula palang po gusto ko ng aminin ito sa inyo, pero sa tuwing lumalapit ako sa iyo ay nawawalan ako ng tibay ng loob at inuunahan ako ng kaba dahil natatakot po ako sa magiging reaksyon ninyo at sa maging resulta nito. Itay, gusto ko pong aminin na sa loob ng aking pagiging lalaki ay isa akong pusong mamon. Alam ko po na sa oras na malalaman nyo ito ay hanggang langit ang galit nyo sa akin, alam kong mahirap tanggapin pero mas mahirap sa akin na itago ko ang tunay kong pagka tao habang buhay, ang tanging hiling ko lang ay sana unawain nyo po ako at matanggap ang aking pagka tao. Hindi ko na po kayang itago ang aking nararamdaman kaya sinasabi ko po sa inyo ang lahat ng ito at masaya na po ako kong ano ako ngayon. Sana ay naunawaan nyo ako sa kabila ng lahat ng ito. Hanggang dito nalang po.
Nagmamahal,
Gideon
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ReplyDeleteImagine yourself as a young gay man or as a young lesbian and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preference
ReplyDeleteDear, ma@pa
I have something to tell you about myself you want me to become a police but I cannot accept that it because i have something secret that you ever see to me. In the past few years i have a secret that i cannot say to you and also to my father it because i don’t want to see me like this but deep in my heart it difficult to me to hide this felling ma@pa I’m a guy and I love to a guy. So mom please forgive me i am getting this rogue woman and my feelings and I will hopefully keep you forgive me I make decisions so mother tell to all people that he know me that i’m a gay to know that im one of the member of the federation.
dear mama and papa
ReplyDeletei know that you know me as your eldest daughter and as myself since when i was grade school.i feel like a boy and i dont want wear ladies cloths and as i grow older,mom you know me already because when i was 1st yaer high school you read my diary.and after you read you slap me because its hard for you to accept me who i am mom,your the only one who comforts me im sorry im happy beig me. mama , papa accept the reality that im a lesbian.but i assure you that i will be a good daughter and a good leader in our family. i dont give you any headaches and i know that your not alraedy accept me in my situation .
mama , papa im sorry...and thank you for loving me ,care for me,guidance,protection and i hope you understand me .
Mahal kong mga magulang,
ReplyDeleteInay at Itay mayroon sana akong gustong sabihin sa inyo.Hindi ko lang masabi baka magalit kayo.Hindi ko na matiis ang aking damdamin na hindi sabihin sa inyo na isa akong bakla.Hindi ko masabi sa bibig kaya dinahan ko na lang sa liham.Masakit man aminin sa inyo pero ito talaga ang aking gusto.Sana ay maintindihan niyo ako.At matangap niyo pa rin ako nang buong-buo.Sana ay maunawaan niyo ang aking sitwasyon ngayon.
Godd day, ma@pa
ReplyDeleteThey say that if there is someone in this world who could understand you, that would be our parents. Everybody has its own secret as well. The only problem is, how to keep this secret of my own.
I know that this will be hard for you to accept this but i have no choice but to say it to both of you. Am not what you think who I am. I cant live my life forever hiding something which i want everyone to know. Yes, I know that you love me but i can no longer act/of being someone else. This is not what i want. Am tired of pretending someone elses character.
Mom, Dad, I am a lesbian i want you both to understand me as your daughter. I hope that you would accept me. Am sorry if i ever hurt your feelings, I apologized on that. I understand if you will be mad at me but i just want you to know that i i love you and i think i observed to be love also by you because after all, I am still your daughter whom you've loved from the very beginning.
Mahal kong Ama at Ina,
ReplyDeleteMeron po akong nais na malaman niyo tungkol sa tunay kong pagkatao. Pagkatao na kung saan matagal ko nang inililihim sa inyo ni ina. Ama ko, ako po ay isang bakla. Hindi ko kasi mapigil ang babae kong damdamin na humanga o magkaroon ng ispesyal na pagtingin sa kapareha kong kasarian; lalake. Sana po ama ay mapatawad niyo po ako sa aking nagawa. Sinira ko ang iyong tiwala na ang kaisa-isa niyong anak na lalake na ngayon ay naging bakla na. Hayaan niyo po , mag-iipon ako ng lakas ng loob para humarap sa inyo ni ina para maipagmalaki niyo ako sa kabila ng aking pusong babae. At sana po ay matanggap niyo ako ni ina.
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ReplyDeleteDear Mama & Papa,
ReplyDeleteWhen I began to write this letter, I’m getting nervous. I don’t know what your reactions would be. Ma, Pa, I have a problem to be revealed to you. I’m not a girl, considering myself belonging to the third sex. Let us say I’m a lesbian in short. Yes Ma and Pa, me your naughty daughter is a lesbian one. I hope you understand my sexual preference. I know it is a big sin to our God Almighty because he created only two genders but this is me, the real me. And maybe, this would be an advantage in my career becoming a policewoman someday. I do hope that you will understand me. I love you very much and may God bless you always.
Loving daughter,
Steph
Mahal kong Inay at Itay,
ReplyDeleteNais ko po sa nang ipagtapat sa inyo ang tunay kong kulay. Isa po ako sa mga taong berde ang kulay ng dugo. Sana po ay hindi kayo magugulat sa aking sasabihin, hindi po ako tunay na lalaki,isa po akong bakla. Alam ko naman po na walang lihim na hindi na ibubunyag. Matagal ko na po ito gustong sabihin, kaya lang po ay natatakot ako baka sipain niyo ako palabas ng bakuran. kahit ganito po ako, wala pa rin mag-iiba sa akin. Siguro pangalan ko lang po ang mag-iiba, sana'y kalimutan niyo na si christian, dahil ang anak niyo po ngayon ay walang iba kung di si christina. lol. Alam niyo lang po sana ang aking nararamdaman sa mga oras nato, ako po ay ubod ng saya. Bow! Mahal na mahal ko po kayong lahat.
Nagmamahal,
IAN
JOURNAL ENTRY
ReplyDelete*Imagine yourself as a young gay man or as a young lesbian, and write letter to your parent s explain your sexual preference.
If I am a young gay man first of all I will express myself for who I am and I will tell the truth for what feeling that I have because whatever I do in my feelings but my feelings are still soft, but my sexuality are still male ,only your feelings are different. Nevertheless it gives god to me this kind of feelings so that, ill stand for it and this is a part of my trials, god gives me this, how do we transcend the life All testing in my life and, I do not make even one bad such as customs to engage in gay intercourse the important is I have not done badly and I am not violate the divine law.
The trials or the problem is any time just before you come so that I just have to trust god with all my heart and with all my soul because life is just borrowed our lord, So I will do everything for fun just me. The combined path is also going through all or just an opposite of them. Therefore whatever happens I will never surrender.
LETTER FOR MY PARENTS
Dear mom/dad
First of all I would like to great you in a grateful day. Dear mom/dad I have something to tell you in a very important matter, it's about my sex. I know since I was born you cared me well, you help me everything and you love me so much, hopefully you understand what I say, mom and dad I am gay your son is gay, If forced to change myself but still, I long kept it in my life I particularly vulnerable because only when I kept it long, So I told you so you do not yet suspect and I need your reply once again sorry mom/dad
TRULY YUORS
YOU’RE SON
COMPLIED BY ARCHIE AGUIMOD
Posted by archie at 2:32 AM
Borrowed time
ReplyDeleteDear parents,
I hope you stay calm and dont be shock as you read this letter of mine. This is only a matter of changing image. As a young individual who wants something new, I want to be a more braver woman. I don't know if this is identity crisis that they use to say, but i hope you understand me for who I'am and what i want to do with mylife. I know that its hard for you to accept me for who iam, specially with my sexual preferences that Im a lesbian.Im on the right age to decide on my own, But i hope you continue to support me in everything that i do, Guide me forever onwards
Love,
JENNIFER
Posted by jensimplegirl at 9:04 PM
Borrowed time
ReplyDeleteDear parents,
Ma, its about my sexual preference, I dont know who I am anymore, I think im in a two world.
I am doubting with my sexuality.I hope you will understand me. I m still young and free to go with my own, but never give up on me as I started to get to know myself,I know its hard for you to0 accept me that iam a lesbian to be exact, idont know but i feel it. I hope you understand.
Your Daughter,
christy
borrowed time
ReplyDeleteIMAGINE YOURSELF AS YOUNG GAY MAN OR AS YOUNG LESBIAN MAN
AND WRITE A LETTER TO YOUR PARENTS EXPLAINING YOUR SEXUAL
REFERENCE?
IF i am a lesbian man ,gagawin ko ang lahat para lang maunlad ang buhay ko.magkaroon man
ako ng kahit anong sakit,gaya nalamang na aids,iisipin ko nalang na wala ako nito,kaysa kung
laging mong iisipin at parang wala kanang tiwala sa sarili mo para mabuhay pa ng matagal.pero
para sa akin isa lamang itong pagsubok o kayay parusa ng panginoon sa akin.kaya tatanggapin
ko nalang ng buong buo.alam nating lahat kahit anong gawin natin sa ating buhay, mananatili parin itong
ganito ang importante may tiwala sa sarili at madasalin ng nasa puso.kaya psayahin ko nalang
ang buhay ko dahil hirm ko lang ito sa ating dios.
by rose marrie maniklay
Posted by rose marrie at 7:05 PM
Borrowed Time: An AIDS Memoir
ReplyDeleteImagine yourself as a young gay and or as a young lesbian, and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preferences.
Mom,
Before anything else I just want to say that I am thankful of having you as my parent, I love you. There is something I want to confess about my real sexuality. I'm a lesbian, and I want to say sorry for that. The truth is I'm not attracted with the opposite sex. I've tried to change this weird thing in me but I can't. Hope you will understand and accept me. I never meant to be like this but I just can't deny the fact that I have the appearance of a woman but a heart of a man. Sorry Mom, but this is me, this is where I'm going to be happy. I love you Mom.
Lovingly yours,
Noela Marie Valera
Borrowed Time: An AIDS Memoir
ReplyDeleteImagine yourself as a young gay or as a young lesbian, and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preferences.
Dear Ma and Pa,
Ma and Pa thank you for everything that you've given me, thank you for the love and for supporting me in my studies. Ma and Pa I have something to confess with regarding on my sexuality that I am a gay. I know that it is hard for you to understand but it is also hard for me to discuss it with you. I try my very best to change myself to become a straight man but my heart doesn't belong to my opposite sex. I don't know how you would react to this.I know that I'm just being true to my self because I can't sleep with this feeling inside me. I love being this way and I just consider it as a gift. I hope that you'll just accept me as your son.
Truly yours,
John Kean
Imagine yourself as a young gay man or a lesbian, and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preference.
ReplyDeleteBeing a gay on my perception is being a huge task to take. On our kind of lifestyle and societal norms, definitely gays are not yet being welcomed. But by the way the world changes i think they can be swallowed by our fellow Filipino's and they will accept them by heart and by mind.
But on my side if i were a gay (SIMBAKO!!). I would still retain normal. Not flashy and not showy, just normal. I would like everyone to think that I'm not that kind of gay that they can mess with. I'll stand firm and be productive. Productive not in the sense of having a baby, but in the sense of being a character for everyone. A character that would be a symbol for gays and a symbol of good citizen. That kind of gay I would want to be.
...The Letter...
To my Parents,
Ma and Pa, you've known me for being me for a while, but i've been secretive. I've been keeping this secret for such a longtime now. I'm just choosing the right time to say this secret to you. Since I'm mature now and I'm independent, i think this is the right time to say this to you. Don't be shocked, just calm yourself, and just finish this letter. I know this would bot be an easy swallow for all of us. But this is the only way i can find to tell you. I'm GAY. That's right MA, Pa... Since college I've been keeping this to you. I can't hope for you to accept me but i hope you'll understand. Your ever loving and hoping son.
CARLITO S. BANDIGAN Jr.
TO MR AND MRS CARLITO R BANDIGAN Sr.
hindi dahilan ang pagiging bading ng isang tao, sahalip dapat pa natin itong ipagmalaki kasi ang mga bading ang siyang gumagawa ng palamuti sa langit at hindi balakid sa amin ang pagiging ganito upang gumawa ng kabutihan sa kapwa tao..kaya naniniwala ako sa kasabihang ang batang makulit pinapalo sa puyit ang baklang makulit tinitira sa puyit..ayyyyyy,ang sarrrraaapppppp...rrrrrrrrrggggggg
ReplyDeleteMa,Pa
ako po ay lubos na nagpapasalamat sa pagpapalaki ninyo sa akin..salamat sa mga soportang ibinigay ninyo sa akin, wala na akong mahihiling pa sa inyo,kundi ang taos pusong pagtanggap ninyo sa tunay na kasarian ko.
matagal ko na itong itinatago ang lihim ng aking kahapon at kung inyong tatanggapin ay magiging bukas kuna..Ma, Pa ako po ay isang "BAYOT" sana po ay matanggap ninyo ako at isiping kapamilya pa rin..SALAMAT sa inyong pagintindi..
MA, I lOve YOU,
ReplyDeleteMa, Salamat.
Salamat sa iyong sacrepisyo para sa akin. Salamat sa lahat ng binigay mu sakin.
Ibig kong humingi ng patawad sa mag kaSalinan ko Sau. Ma, saNa tangGapin mu Parin Ako kahIt aLam muna ang kaToTOhanan sa PagkaTao ko. Ako Po ay Isang babae. Ngunit nagmamahal rin po ako ng kapWa ko babae. Ako Po ay isang TOMBOY ma. patAwad po daHil nagLihim ako sau. Ngunit pinigilan ko po. Kaso natuloyan kya ito ako ngayon ma. Ma Patwad ulit. Sana may puwaNg parin ako sa in,u.
lubos na gumagalang.
Rhea jane
Dear Mama and Papa,
ReplyDeleteI know that you know me, but I know myself better than you two do. We all know that I am physically described as a lady and as far as you know I am. I've been wanting to talk to you since then about this kind of matter. But both of you are too busy on your chosen field of endeavors. So I've decided to wrote this kind of confession letter for the both of you.
My dear parents, you know that i love you very much. You are always there for me. You always give me support. Those things are much appreciated and I thank you for that.
From the time I turned 13 years old, I have this confusion about myself. How I would act, and dress myself. And I found it comfortable to dress-up like a boy and move like them. I don't like wearing dresses that are for girls. I feel uncomfortable. I feel much better wearing shirts and pants not blouses and skirts. I don't like to be with girls. They sometimes irritate me. I prefer to be with guys than gals. I hope you understand and accept me as i am. I promise I won't give you problems about this kind of matter.
Your loving daughter,
Marielle
To my Beloved Parents,
ReplyDeleteThank you for being good to me. I know you've done everything to show your countless love to me as your son. Thank you so much 'pa and 'ma for your full support, financially and emotionally. I don't know how to tell you my problem for the reason that you've expected a lot from me. I'm not perfect. I hope you'll understand my situation. I don't even choose to put myself into this kind of problem. Then, suddenly the day came that my feeling changes. I've noticed a lot of changes in my physical and emotional aspects. Mama, Papa I'm gay. I'm sorry if I can't meet your expectation. But I'll do my best for you to be proud of me. I love you so much mama and papa. Please understand me.
Your Beloved son,
Michael
dear mama
ReplyDeleteuna sa lahat meron sana akong sabihin sayo tungkol ito sa aking fellings meron akong itinatagong sekreto na hindi ninyo pa nalalaman at ito ay ang pagiging benabae ko pilit ko mang itago sa sarili ko pero lumalababas paren ang aking pagkatotoo pa rin na ako'y isang bading at akoy umiibig sa kapwa ko lalaki. Makalipas ang mga taon nakita ko ito sa sarili ko ang pagiging ganito ko sana mapatawad ko ninyo ako at matanggap ninyo ako.
lubos na nagmamahal,
mark masambay
Mahal kong Ama at Ina,
ReplyDeleteMagandang araw po sa inyo. Sana ay nasa maganda kayong kalagayan ngayon. Ma, pa, sinulatan ko po kayo dahil sa may importanteng bagay akong sasabihin sa inyo at sana ay maluwag sa inyong kaluoban ang sasabihin ko po. Sa daming karanasan sa aking buhay, ngayon ko lang ito naramdaman. Nagtataka ako nung una at sa aking palagay ay hindi po ako sigurado, marahil hindi pa buo ang aking isipan sa bagay na ito. Ngunit ng lumaon ay napagpuna ko na may kakaiba talaga akong nararamdaman sa aking pagkalalaki. Ma at pa, huwag sana magbago ang pagtingin niyo sa akin bilang anak, huwag niyo rin po sanang dibdibin ang sasabihin ko, at sana rin ay matanggap ninyo kung ano mang disisyon aking napagpasyahan at hindi sa kadahilanang ito'y hindi totoo, minsan hindi natin malalaman kung ano ang ating kapalaran, kusa na lang natin itong makikita o kaya'y dumarating sa ating buhay. Ma, pa, sana maintindihan niyo ang ako, isa po ako sa mga "shemale" na tinatawag nila. Bakla po ako. alam kong hindi niyo agad itong matatangap at alam ko ring masakit sa inyo po, pero umaasa pa rin akong mamahalin niyo ako tulad ng dating ako at mas higit pa po sana dahil kailangan ko po kayo, huwang kayong mag alala, hinding hindi ko po kayo bibigyan ng anumang problema ngayong ganito na ako at sana maunawaan niyo po kung ano man ako ngayon.
Lubosang nagmamahal,
Jejomar Cuizon
Imagine yourself as a young gay man or a lesbian, and write a letter to your parents expalaining your sexual preference.
ReplyDeleteGood day! mom and dad, I have been a good son to our family. That your good son today, mom and dad, had a big problem of confession of one matter. Even if you expected a lot from me for being a police man someday to help our family. Maybe you cannot accept me now because I have been hide my sexuality over years..mom..dad? Me your son has a female hearted boy or in-short you may call me a gay person. Beside in my personality now, I hardly trying to be a good son to you my mom and dad. Sorry that I cannot continue my profession of being a police man. Because as time passes by. It is so very hard to hide my true personality. Hope that you can understand me as your son. I will take care of myself always so that you will not get worry for me, For now I will find myself and I will try to seek myself whom I belong to. Please take care always mom and dad.
Pa, Ma,
ReplyDeleteUnang-una sa lahat nagpapasalamat po ako sa inyo sa pagpapalaki nyo sa akin at sa walang sawang pagsuporta. Alam kong hindi nyo matatanggap kong sasabihin ko sa inyo na ako po ay isang tomboy. Sana po ay maintindihan nyo po ako. Alam ko po na ayaw na ayaw nyo sa kinuha kong kurso dahil sabi nyo lalaki lang ang dapat kumuha nito, pero ito po yong gusto mula pa noon at gusto ko pong maging pulis baling araw. Ma, pasensya na minsan kong may pinapasuot kayo sa akin na suot pambabae ay hindi ko sinusuot, dahil hindi kop o talaga kaya ang magsuot nito. Pasensya rin minsan nay kung hindi ako nakikinig sa mga sinasabi nyo sa akin na yan, wag kang maglakad ng ganya.n, patawad p[o sa hindi pakikinig. Ma, Pa sana wag nyo akong itakwil bilang anak nyo at pinapangako kop o sa inyo na gagawin ko ang lahat para lang makatapos sa kursong kinuha ko na ayaw na ayaw nyo.Sana rin po unti-unti nyo akong matanggap.
Maintindihan nyo po sana ako.
Ang Iyong Anak,
JENELYN
Mahal kong mga Magulang,
ReplyDeleteMay sasabihin po sana ako sa nyo, matagal ko na po sana itong sasabihin kaso natatakot ako na baka hindi nyo ako matanggapbilang anak nyo. Alam kong nag –iisa nyo akong lalaki na anak at puro na babae ang mga kapati d ko at alam ko rin po na gustong-gusto nyo ng anak na lalaki. Ma, Pa patawarin nyo po sana ako kung sasabihin kong isa po akong bakla. Mahirap din po sa akin kong hindi ko sasabihin ang aking unay na katauhan na isa akong bakla.Alam kong sa paningin ninyo na isang salot ang maging isang bakla.
Pero sana po hindi ganyan ang pagtingin nyo sa akin. Pa, mas lalo po akong nahihiya sa inyo dahil ginagawa nyo ang lahat para lang po ako ay makatapos sa kursong gusto niyo. Aam kong gusto nyo talaga ako na maging isang pulis balang araw o maging isang kilalang pulis pero hindi ko po talaga kaya . Patawarin nyo po sana ako.
Sana patawarin nyo ako at matanggap nyo po sana ako bilang anak nyo.
Ang Inyong Anak,
KHALID
2. Imagine yourself as a young gay man or a lesbian, and write a letter to your parents.
ReplyDeleteHello mom and dad.. I know its kinda awkward. I'd been wanting to tell you this for a long time.. I know its not easy for you to accept this same as I'm having hard time also telling you the truth. Mom, dad I'm having problem since then i found out that I'm lesbian. Yeah its kinda hard to accept. And its very disappointing in your part but this is what i feel for myself. Hope you could accept the fact.. I'm happy being who I am and being true to myself. Mom, dad sorry if I dissapointed you, Its not easy for me and i didn't meant to hurt you..
Dear ma and Pa,
ReplyDeleteGood day Ma, Pa, I have something to confess. It bothers me for a long, long time. I keep it for how many years so that you will not get disappointed, but now I am ready to let go and show to the people and reveal it. Ma, Pa I’m a lesbian. I don’t know how did it come to me, I don’t know when or where it starts, I just feel it, I just feel that I like girls and I am so attract to girls. Ma, Pa I’m very sorry but this is the really me. This is what my mind and heart says. I can’t force my self to act like a real lady. I’m so sorry for being like this. I know that you’re expecting a grandchild from me. But I’m sorry to fail you’re wishes. I hope you understand my situation and I hope that you will accept me as me, as a lesbian daughter. I am ready to accept any punishment you want to give me. And now I feel very happy that I already reveal the truth to you. There’s a freedom now in my heart and I admit that I feel so happy that after all of these years, I let go of the things that bothers me. Thank you for everything my dear parents. I love you.
Dear Ma@Pa
ReplyDeleteMagandang araw po sa inyo gusto sa kayong makausap dahil gusto kong malaman ninyo na meron akong tinatago sa inyo kahit alam ninyo ang aking pagkatao pero sa palagay ko ito na ang panahon upang malaman ninyo na isang akong bading umiibig po ako sa katulad kong lalaki nalaman ko na ito ng makita ko ang lalaking iniibig ko hindi ko lang masabi sa inyo dahil ayokong mawala ang pagmamahal ninyo sa kin p[ero siguro mas masakit sa inyo kong kayo mismo ang mamakaalam nito sana mapatawad ninyo ako.
Nagmamahal
Miones JunJun
Dear: Mama and Papa
ReplyDeleteNagpadala ako ng liham sa inyo dahil mayron sana akong sasabihin sa inyo itoy tungkol sa aking pagkatao, noon pa man ay gusto ko nang sabihin sa inyo ang totoo dahil nahihirapan akong itago ang katotohanan kaya aaminin ko sa inyo na akoy isang bakla , umaasa akong maiintindihan nyo ang aking nararamdaman , sana hindi magbago ang tingin nyo sa akin bilang pinakamamahal nyong anak at umaasa rin mapapatawad nyo ako sa aking mga nagawang pagkakamali. “ang bunso nyong anak”
Mahal kong ama't ina,
ReplyDeleteNais ko pong malaman nyo ang tunay kong damdamin. Dahil nung nagkaisip po ako nararamdaman ko po sa aking damdamin at isipan na merong kakaiba. Kaya naisip ko ilahad ang saloobin at sana po ay hindi kayo mabigla, sana po ay inyong maintindihan na ang damdamin ko ay may pagka-babae. Hinihiling ko po na sana maintindihan nyo at matanggap. Tay, alam ko po na masakit sa inyo na tanggapin ang katotohanan na ang kaisa-isa nyong anak na lalake ay ngayon po ay isa nang bading. Matagal na pong panahon na itinago ko ito at ngayon lang ako nagkalakas ng loob dahil hindi ko po kayang itago ng matagal at magsinungaling sa inyo ni ina. Nay, alam ko pong maiintindihan nyo at tulungan nyo po ako na ipaliwanag kay itay ang tunay kong nararamdaman. Umaasa po ako na matanggap nyo po ako ng buong-buo katulad ng pagmamahal nyo sa akin nung ako'y bata pa.
To my beloved parent,
ReplyDeletethank for evrything.
Ma and tay, im sorry , i know you have a lot of that youve expect on me . Ma i have somthing to tell you about my personality.Its hard for me na sabihin sa inyo ang totoo .dahil alam ko po na magalit kayo . Ma na hihirapan na kasi ako na itago sa inyo itong pagkatao ko. ayaw ko na rin magsinungaling sa inyo at pati na rin sa sarili ko. Ma isa poh akong babaeng may pusong lalake.sana mapatawad nyo ako ginawa ko ang lahat .na wag sundin ang gusto ng puso ko . i hope htat you will understand me.
I LOVE YOU ALWAYS .
Borrowed Time: An AIDS Memoir
ReplyDeleteImagine yourself as a young gay man or as a young lesbian and write a letter to your parents explaining your sexual preference.
Dear Ma and Pa,
Mabait naman po akong anak di ba? Ginagawa ko po ang lahat ng inyong mga gusto para sa aking kinabukasan. Tapos sabi nyo po na gusto po ninyo akong maging isang pulis balang araw. Ma..Pa..sorry po kung hindi na po yun matutupad dahil sa isa po akong lalaki na may pusong babae. Unuulit ko po na isa po akong bakla at handa ko na pong harapin ang kapalaran kung anu mang meron po ako. Kahit ganito po ang kalagayan ko ay gusto ko po rin kayong bigyan ng maginhawang buhay. Hahanapin ko po ang aking kapalaran sa pagiging bakla ko po at sana po ay matanggap po ninyo kung ano po ako ngayon. Salamat po sa lahat ng pag-aaruga nyo po sa akin at mahal na mahal ko po kayo.
Dear Ma'y at Pa'y;
ReplyDeleteAko'y sumulat ng liham na ito sa na may malking kadahilanan sa aking buhay. Alam ko na minamahal ninyo ako at nais kong malaman niyo na mahal ko po rin kayo. Sa mundong ito may mga pangyayari na hindi natin akalain subalit sadyang iyan ang katotohanan. Hindi natin ginusto ngunit nangyari. Masakit at labag man sa kaluoban ngunit kailangan tanggapin ng buong puso.
Sa akinng mga pinakamamahal na magulang nais kung malaman ninyo na ang nag iisang anak ninyo ay isang BAKLA. Alam ko po na kayo'y magugulat, mamangha, magalit,at hindi makapaniwala sa tunay kung pagkatao at dinadamdam.Hindi ko po ito ginusto at pinangarap man lang sa buhay kung ito. Ngunit, ito'y marahil biyaya ng Dios sa akin. Ako po ay humihingi ng taos pusong paumanhin sa inyo. Patawarin nyo ako at aking dinadasal na ako'y inyong matanggap at hindi ipagtabuyan. Mahal na mahal ko po kayo ma pakailan man.
Ang inyong Anak;
Christian
Dear Ma and Pa,
ReplyDeleteMagandang araw po sa inyo. Salamat sa pagpapalaki n'yo sa sakin ng mabuti at mahal na mahal ko po kayo.
Habang lumalaki po ako ay unti-unti ko pong nararamdaman na akoy naiiba sa kanila. Marahil nga nung bata pa ako'y nagtataka kayo kung bakit hindi ako mahilig sa paglalaro na Basketball o maging sa Boxing at mas nagka-kainteris pa po ako sa mga bulaklak.
Ciguro nga panahon na para malaman n'yo kung ano ang aking tunay na nararamdaman. Ang totoo'y ako ay nagkakagusto sa isang lalaki't hindi sa mga babae. Ma'Pa ako'y isang bakla, sanay tanggap n'yo kung ano man ako. Ito talaga ang nararamdaman ko. Sanay naintihan n'yo.
Nagmamahal John....
THE REVELATION
ReplyDeleteDear mom and dad,
I want you to know that everything that you see in me is not the real me.because the truth is I am not the handsome son that you know. I am the GORGEOUS daughter of yours. I don't want to hurt you but this is the real me. I hope you accept me for who I am.
lovingly yours,
GORGEOUS!
Dear Ma and Pa,
ReplyDeleteMay gusto po sana akong sabihin sa inyo. Ito po ay personal na bagay na matagal ko nang nililihim sa sarili ko. Sana pos a oras na malaman ninyo ang lihim kong ito ay sana’y maintindihan ninyo ako. Ma, Pa di ko na po kayang itago ang buong pagkatao ko kaya habang maaga pa sasabihin ko na ang totoo. Isa po akong tomboy. . Hindi man po kayo maniwala sa sinabi ko dahil hindi nyo mapansin ngunit iyan po ang totoo. Hindi ko po nais saktan kayo pero ito po ang paraan para matanggap nyo ako.Patawarin po sana ninyo ako sa ginawa ko sa inyo. Huwag nyo pong isipin na hindi kayong mabuting mga magulang dahil ang totoo po’y ipinagsisigawan kop o sa buong mundo na maswerte ako na ako ang anak ninyo sa kabila ng mga ginawa ko. Sana mapatawad ninyo ako sa mga naging kasalanan ko sa inyo. Pagdating po ng tamang panahon na kayak o nang humarap sa inyo ng personal ay sana’y pakinggan ninyo ako at maintindihan.
Ma, Pa hindi po ako perpektong tao, tao lang po ako na marunong masaktan at may karapatang maging masaya sa buhay. Huwag po kayong mag-alala, alam kop o ang ginagawa ko sa buhay. Nasa maayos po akong kalagayan. Ma, Pa mahal na mahal ko po kayo at kahit kamuhian man ninyo ako hindi ko po kayo masisisi. Ituturing ko pa rin kayong ginto sa buhay ko at dadalhin ang gintong ito habang buhay.
Nagmamahal,
Donita
Hi Ma, Hi Pa:))
ReplyDeleteHow's your day?...
Hope its great;)
Siguro wala kayong idea kong bakit ako sumulat, for the 1st time sumulat ako sa inyo, hindi ko lang po kasi kayang sabihin ng harapan.
I simply write this letter for a confession, a big revelation rather...
Ma, pa, thank you for being a good parents to me, a appreciated it very much, and I'm sorry if I act like spoiled brat, and disobedient to both of you, pero minsan lang nman po yon eh... hehehe:))
The truth is i don't know when and where to start, but I just want you yo know na kahit anong mangyari, ako parin po to i Ivy ang anak ninyo.
Sabi nyo po noon na panahon na para magpaligaw o tumanggap na ako ng mga manliligaw, pero kahit na kaylan po hindi po nagpaligaw at ayokong magpaligaw, dahil ako po ang manliligaw at hindi sa isang lalaki, kundi sa isang babae, upo! tama pong nabasa nyo, sa isang babae...
ma pa ako po ay tumboy, nalaman ko lang po ito nong tumibok ang puso ko sa isang babae na kailan man hindi sa isang lalaki...
Pero ma pa, ako parin naman po to, hindi magbabago, nagbago lang po ang katauhan ko pero, ako parin to... hubaran man ako ng bunggang-bongga!! ay talaga nanmang makikita ang makinis kong kutis babae, pero puso, isip at kaluluwa koy talagang lalaking-lalaki.:(
Ma pa ito po ang katutuhan, sana po akoy inyong maintindihan...
Onica Ija:
Ivy Kate
Minamahal kong Magulang,
ReplyDeleteMagandang araw po sa inyo. Kumusta? Minabuti ko pong daanin ito sa sulat. Meron po sana akong gustong ipagtapat sa inyo. Ito po ay tungkol sa aking kalagayan. Matagal ko po itong itinatago sa inyo. Tungkol po ito sa aking nararamdaman. At siguro ay ito na po ang tamang pagkakataon. Ako po ay ay hindi tunay na lalaki. ako po ay bakla. Sana ay maintidihan niyo ako.
Nagmamahal,
Mark Orias
Dear ma and pa,
ReplyDeletesumulat po ako sa inyo dahil miron po sana akung ipag tapat sa inyo,salamat po sa inyong walang pa suporta sa akin at sa pag papalaki ninyo ng maayos na mayroong takot sa diyos,sana pag malaman na ninyo ang tunay kong pagkatao ay huwag sana kayong magalit sa akin at tanggapin ninyo parin ako bilang anak ninyo,ma pa hindi ko na po papatagalin ito isa po akung BAKLA alam ko mahirap sa inyo na tanggapin na kung ano ako piro yon po talaga ang pagkatao, ma pa salamat sa lahat at mahal na mahal ko po kayo
Nagmamahal
Rodino
Dear papa@mama
ReplyDeleteUna sa lahat nais ko pong aminin sa iyo na sana inyong pong mamarapatin ang aking kalagayan ngayon dahil hindi ko na po mapaipagkaila na akoy isang bading noong una po gusto ko pong sabihin at ipadama sa iyo at sa iba kong kasamahan at mga kaibigan ng sa ganon maintindihan ninyo kong sino ba talaga ako sa ngayon nais ko pong ipaalam at sabihin sa inyo ang aking sitwasyon ako po talaga ay isang bakla nong una iba na ang aking nararamdaman para bang tumitibok ang aking puso sa mga lalaki at sa naging katagalan parang may pumaopasok sa aking isipan na ang sarap na maging buhay bakla maraming lalaki ang ang aking nagugustohan sana mpatawad ninyo ako.
nagmmahal,
Ian Dionson
Dear Papa and Mama,
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in my childhood, I thought that life would be an easier for me. But as I grew up I learned a lot of things that we as an individual have differences. Many of them ask, how’s your life? And I would say I’m ok, but beyond those answers is tears, frustration, and doubts. I thought I’m ok but I resist the fact that I’m not.
Pa and Ma I hope that when you read this letter you will not get angry with me, coz I know what ever happen to me, you will there for me, that’s why I’m not afraid to confess this feeling that I have. Papa and Mama I am not a real girl as you’ve known, I try to hide this but I was failure to do it, Pa and Ma I am a Lesbian, I cannot control myself, I’m going to show to them who I am or who is the real me. Mama and Papa I’m really sorry, but I have to find myself somewhere I belong.
Ma and Pa I hope that you will understand, God knows how much I love you both, and I know that you will accept me for who I am, I’m really sorry again Mama and Papa.
Dear Ma and Pa,
ReplyDeleteKumusta na po kayo, sana nasa mabuti kayong kalagayan ngayon. May sasabihin sana ako sa inyo, siguro ito na ang tamang pagkakataon na sabihin ko sa inyo ang katotohanan na matagal ko nang inililihim sa inyo. Maintindihan nyo ako sa aking naging disisyon ngayon na ilabas ang totoo kong nararamdaman na akoy isang BAKLA, alam kong mahirap tanggapin ang isang katulad kong bakla at alam kong nasaktan ko kayo dahil pinaasa ko kayo na akoy isang tunay na lalaki pero hindi pala. Hanggang ditto nalang!!!Joyjoy
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ReplyDeleteto my loving MAMA PAPA..
ReplyDeletema pa, i have something to tell you that it well really bang your world..
did you ever notice that childhood every time you give me toy like gun i always stack it in the corner its because the toy i want is doll or a children make up kit..mama papa i am guy..a girl. and not a boy hoe you well accept me for who i am...
your loving and BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER
warren... a.k.a (♥ERIKA♥)
Dear ma@pa
ReplyDeleteMeron sana akong sasabihin sa inyo tungkol ito sa aking pagkatao. Alam niyo naman ang pagkatao ko. Pero meron pa akong isang sekreto na hindi ko pa sa inyo na ibubunyag at ito ang pagiging binabae ko. Mahirap man tangapin sa loob ng puso niyo. Pero sa tingin ko ito ang nararapat kaya sana mapatawad ninyo ako. Pilit ko mang turuan ang damdamin kung gawin ang nararapat sa inyo. Pero hind ko talaga kaya dinitiktahan ang puso ko na gawin ito. Isa na don ang hindi ko pagtanggap sa pagiging pulis dahil baka pagtatawanan lang nila ako sa kinikiklos ko. Sana akoy pagbigyan ninyo ako. Nagmamahal din ako katulad ng pagmamahal ko sa inyo.
MA,PA,
ReplyDeleteit's been a long time since i have shared to you my thoughts
and feelings.I remember when I was a child, every pain that I feel
and every single idea that comes up into my mind, I never hesitated
to tell you.
And now I have a confession to make. Ever since, I've been
obeying you for what you wanted me to be.But this time i wanted
to be true to myself. At first I thought this would just pass and go.
Unwillingly I noticed myself that I am admiring my same sex friends.
You've mdeme no mistake in raising me. Ma, Pa,
i am still your junior! i am GAY and i'm proud to be one.
im sorry.
love,
YOUR daugther
Mahal kong Ama at Ina,
ReplyDeleteMagandang araw po sa inyo. Alam kong nasa mabuti kayong kalagayan ngayon. Huwag kayong mag-alala, ako'y nasa mabuti ring kalagayan yun nga lang may kaunting pagbabago sa aking sarili.
Ama, huwag po sana kayong mabibigla. Ina, alam kong susuportahan niyo ako kung ano man ang maging pasya ko. Itay, inay, mahalaga po ninyong malaman ang aking hinanaing tungkol dito. Alam ko po na hindi niyo agad itong matatanggap, nay, tay, bakla po ako. Wala po kayong pagkakamali sa pagpapalaki sa akin, huwag niyo po itong isisi sa inyong mga sarili, pero tay, nay, hindi ko po kayang magpanggap. Kailangan ko pong tanggapin kung ano anko at sana ganun din kayo.
Nagmamahal,
James David
To my dearest parents,
ReplyDeleteHave a good day to you handsome and beautiful!!!!
Well, I made this letter to express my feelings and to share to you what I want to say.
Mom, Dad I'm a lesbian I'm sorry I can't hide it anymore....let's just accept the fact that this me you're new son!! even though you lost a very beautiful daughter at least you have now a handsome son..ohhh diba??
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ReplyDeleteDear Mom & Dad
ReplyDeleteI want to share something about my life that is important because I love
you. I am gay. I have only known this about myself since I was 9. In
the years that have passed since then, keeping this a secret from you
has become more and more of a burden. It has also placed an invisible
wall between us in that I can not share with you much of what goes on in
my life, something that straight children take for granted. I could not
share the excitement of dating somebody new nor the pain when things
didn't work out. I have spent many nights crying with a broken heart,
alone, unable to call you for support.
I know that you may be feeling shocked, confused, angry, and sad; and
perhaps you might feel that, somewhere along the way, you have failed as
parents. From what I have read, these are common reactions. You have
not failed as parents; you have both been wonderful. Nobody chooses to
be gay and I accept myself and am happy with who I am. My friends have
> known for some time and they accept me as well. I hope that you will be
happy for me.
Part of me thinks that you might have suspected for some time that I am
gay since I never brought home girls while in school and I never talk
about dating or women now. On the other hand, my being gay may have
come as a complete surprise to you and you may need to take some time to
get used to the idea. Hopefully, a few years from now, our relationship
will be closer than it has been in the past. This is part of the reason
I am coming out to you: to tear down the wall between us. When we speak
on the phone and you ask me what is going on in my life and I say,
"Nothing," I have been lying. I haven't been lying to deceive you, but
because I could not tell you the truth. This lying has been eating at
me for some time now and I'm tired of it. So this was the choice I had
to make: either keep lying and allow us to grow even farther apart from
each other, or tell the truth and hopefully have a better relationship
in the long run.
I know you have always loved me very much. It was very hard to mail
this letter for fear of losing that love. I have cried several times
while writing it. Although you may not understand about being gay, I
hope that you still love me now. Know that I am the same person now as
I was before you read this letter; you just know one more thing about
me. I am still "eden mark."
Dear Mom & Dad -
ReplyDeleteI want to share something about my life that is important because I love
you. I am gay. I have only known this about myself since I was 25. In
the years that have passed since then, keeping this a secret from you
has become more and more of a burden. It has also placed an invisible
wall between us in that I can not share with you much of what goes on in
my life, something that straight children take for granted. I could not
share the excitement of dating somebody new nor the pain when things
didn't work out. I have spent many nights crying with a broken heart,
alone, unable to call you for support.
I know that you may be feeling shocked, confused, angry, and sad; and
perhaps you might feel that, somewhere along the way, you have failed as
parents. From what I have read, these are common reactions. You have
not failed as parents; you have both been wonderful. Nobody chooses to
be gay and I accept myself and am happy with who I am. My friends have
known for some time and they accept me as well. I hope that you will be
happy for me.
Part of me thinks that you might have suspected for some time that I am
gay since I never brought home girls while in school and I never talk
about dating or women now. On the other hand, my being gay may have
come as a complete surprise to you and you may need to take some time to
get used to the idea. Hopefully, a few years from now, our relationship
will be closer than it has been in the past. This is part of the reason
I am coming out to you: to tear down the wall between us. When we speak
on the phone and you ask me what is going on in my life and I say,
"Nothing," I have been lying. I haven't been lying to deceive you, but
because I could not tell you the truth. This lying has been eating at
me for some time now and I'm tired of it. So this was the choice I had
to make: either keep lying and allow us to grow even farther apart from
each other, or tell the truth and hopefully have a better relationship
in the long run.
I know you have always loved me very much. It was very hard to say this letter for fear of losing that love. I have cried several times
while writing it. Although you may not understand about being gay, I
hope that you still love me now. Know that I am the same person now as
I was before you read this letter; you just know one more thing about
me. I am still "eden mark."
To my beloved parents,
ReplyDeleteHave a pleasant day to both of you!
Well, I'm so thankful that you we're my parents cause you gave me everything that I want you're love, care and understanding..mama, papa,,I'm sorry if sometimes I hurt your feelings it's just that I'm still human no perfect..
You we're the best parents ever guy's..I can really say that you perfectly raise a cute, smiling and kind girl ever!! just kidding..but seriously that's true.
By the way I made this letter to have confession to both of you or maybe I can say it is like sharing what I really feel..I'm sorry if ever I'm gonna disappoint you but what ever happen I'm still your cute daughter. Ma, Pa I'm a lesbian, I'm sorry but this is me. But if you are going to accept my new sexual preference God knows I will be very grateful..
Thanks and I Love You both nothing gonna change my love for you!!
Loving,
ELBHIE
mahal kung ina at ama
ReplyDeleteuna sa lahat magandang araw sa inyo.mayron po sana akong nais ipagtatapat sa inyo sana po ako ay inyung maintindihan.ma pa isa po akung tomboy sana po wag kayung magagalit at sana matangap ninyo ako kasi mula pagka bata ay ganito na talaga ako.mahal na mahal ko po kayo kaya ngayon kulang ito sinabi sainyo hirap na po akung magtago.wag nyo sanang ikasama ang pa amin ko na ganito na talaga ako..
nagmamahal:yel
Dear Pa at Ma,
ReplyDeleteMeron akong ipagtatapat sa inyo, Ako po ay isang bakla. Noon ko pa ito gustong sabihin ngunit nahihiya ako at baka kapag sinabi ko sa inyo agad ang sekreto ko ay ikahiya ninyong may anak kayong isang bakla. Minsan gusto ko nang ipakita sa lahat ng tao na bakla ako, subalit iniisip ko rin na baka pagtawanan nila ako at basta na lamang saktan ang damdamin ko. Ako manay isang bakla ngunit may respeto at pagbibigay galang naman ako sa inyo. Hindi nyo man lubos maisip na kung bakit hindi ninyo agad napansin kung ano ang mga nakatagong pagkatao ko, dahil sa hindi ako nagdadamit ng mga kasuotan ng mga bakla. Ngunit sa likod ng mga kasinungalingan iyon ako ay humihingi ng paumanhin sa hindi ko pagsabi agad ng katotohanan sa inyong dalawa. Hindi ko kaya na hanggang sa patanda ko ay itatago ko na lamang ang pagiging bakla. Ako ay may pusong babae at nagkakagusto ako sa mga lalake. Lalong-lalo na kung gwapo, matipuno, maganda ang pangangatawan, at higit sa lahat tanggap kung ano ang meron ako at kung ano ako. Marami akong nagugustuhang lalake at kung minsan nga ay masaabi ko sa aking sarili na "I'm Inlove!" sa isang lalake dahil sa masaya ako kapag nakikita kop siya. Para bang naiisip ko narin na ako'y isang tunay na babae na marunong ding magmahal nang isang tunay na lalake.
Nagmamahal,
Richard Isaias
Here is my version of my letter..Hmmmmm here we go.
ReplyDeleteDear Mom and Dad,
I was thinking about about something for quite a time now. And I guess I have to let it out because I cannot bear the burden anymore.
I always live to your expectations since I was a child and now that I am of the age where I think I can make sound decisions on my own.
Ma, Pa, I d not know if you will be happy or what with this. I will tell it to you straight. I am a lesbian.
I want to be the perfect princess that you wish me to be..but it’s just that I can’t. I prayed and prayed that if there is a chance I could change my self then I would take all the risk just to be that princess.
Mom, dad, I did not want this nor I wish that I would be like this. But this is me...I love you ma and pa. I hope you would still accept me as your daughter. Maybe that I wasn’t the typical “she” but my enormous love and respect towards you changed nothing even a bit.
I wish you would still be proud of me despite everything of what I have confessed to you. I repeat, I do not want this. I did not wish this to happen to me but I just wake up one morning and i realized that I may be the girl outside, I am not anymore inside.
I love you both ma and pa...
I will remain the loving daughter you will always have.
Love,
Niño
CLOSED...PERIOD...
ReplyDeleteMaybe I go this way, Pa, Ma, I'm sorry because, I have a secret I kept since i was a kid, I'm not a kind of person you think I'am, I dont know how it happen but it was came and I cannot control of what I feel, I know, you'll be angry, that's why I wrote a letter for you to understand me, Ma, Pa, I feel I'am not a woman, I feel like a man who desire to be with my own sex, Hope you can understand.
ReplyDeleteDear Papa & Mama
ReplyDeletePa,Ma alam kong pinalaki ninyo ako ng maayos at may takot sa diyos, isang mabuting bata at kailangan maging matapat ako sa bawat oras, ngunit sa itinatagal tagal na oras ngayon ko lang po ako nag lakas loob na sabihin at aminin sa inyo ang tunay na ako, Pa,Ma patawad po, ngunit hindi ako batang lalaki na ina asam-asam nyo, mahirap man pong paniwalaan ngunit may puso po akong mamon, isa po akong bakla, at nais ko pong matanggap ninyo ang tunay na ako,at kung sino ako.
Hangang dito na lang po, mahal ko po kayo.
Sumasainyo,
Danilo